Forgiving someone for the beneficial of a relationship is so cute and praising too. I admit that too but it highly matters if the forgiveness comes after accepting the mistake by the opposition. We are human being and we often do mistakes which literally hurt people. Sometimes we hurt our close ones. Accepting mistakes is the good deal in any kind of relationship. I'm not just talking about love relationship. I'm pointing out family, friends, colleague, siblings, society relationships too. Having the desired forgiveness after accepting the mistakes is the cherry on the cake as you feel the happiness from dual ways. One by revealing the truth and getting the burden out and second by getting the forgiveness.
Hello people. This is your desired Devil with another topic. Wishing you the happy vibes today. I don’t know how will the pass on but yesterday was not a good day for me. Also, not that worst of course. I had a mixed reaction and somehow I think, among all those incidents I have something to feel better. What was that? Let's have a journey. Hold my hand as I am taking you all 24hrs before, a little time travel.
Topic: Accepting mistakes & Forgiveness
It was about the last class at college before the Ramadan vacation. I went there and reached at my office before the time. So I went to the library and started reading a book. I was there one and half hour earlier that day. Plenty of time in hand. I was pinched by someone. I looked sideways and found my colleague, Urmila there. We both smiled at each other in spite of her pinch. Ok, that's not cool when you meet someone. Urmila never had a decent conversation with me before. So it was the first time when we both had a nice talk. It was all about education, job life, friend zone, family. She was sharing her stories when suddenly my phone notified me a notification.
It was a telegram message. One of my friend sent a pdf file for me. I checked it and then scrolled back. Urmila was watching everything which was not that warning for me as I had nothing to hide. When I put my phone in the pocket, she smiled and said, ❝ You are a Girl's man, I see. ❞ I wasn’t expecting that word and didn’t see that coming. She explained that she noted that there was a girl's name on the chat list. I smiled and showed the conversation which happened a long time ago and told that the destination changed. Then I told a brief story about her. After hearing it, she reacted like this way...
: But she is pretty good. Adorable and cute.
: Definitely. I agree.
: Then why you called that off?
: I didn’t, she did.
: But she is Doctor.
: And I am a Devil.
I didn’t want to expose more of it and simply walked out of that room. The right time came and I attended my class. It was a good session with the students as we had a beautiful subject explanation. In the end, I wished them advance Eid Mubarak and invited them to my home. They did the same. So it was a happy ending.
I returned to the teacher's room and sat down. Something uneasy type feelings were happening then. One of my colleagues, sitting at a corner asked me the address of the girl from Syria. I was astonished. How did he know? I never talked about it. Some others also teased me too. I remained silent as I knew where it all began. After Urmila's class, I asked her why she did so. I trusted her and let her know but that didn’t mean that she had the authorization to announce it everywhere. I was angry but simply questioned her. I stared at her in cold eyes and then left. Still my colleagues were convincing me to talk with her via telegram as they would love to see us talking. I took my bag, looked at Urmila and went away. She knew that she had done a mistake.
At night, around 10.30pm, my phone notified me a message. It was from Urmila. She was asking if I were free, she would like to call me. I didn’t reply. I was angry still then. After 15min, she called me. I didn’t pick up. She called again, probably for the 4-5times. Finally, I picked up. She directly apologized for what she had done. She accepted her mistakes and seek forgiveness. But I remained silent & put down the phone.
Well, you people know that I cannot forgive people who betrays me or hurt me. But in this case, she was accepting her fault & saying sorry. I took a cup of coffee, started having it and then texted her back that ❝ It’s ok. I respect you and I hope you won't feel bad anymore. I'm sorry too. Take care. ❞ She thanked me in return text.
I looked out the window while having the rest of the coffee. Some relationships are so clumsy, unpredictable and disturbing too. But they can be fixed if people start accepting their faults and seek forgiveness. But one has to ask for it. One has to stand and have the courage to accept the faults. We don’t do that and that's where our relations break. I allowed you people to know about my story. Hope you have understood my situation. Don't know whether it was a good day or bad but it certainly showed me a way that mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to admit them.
Please note: This is my personal feelings. I'm not describing anything to hurt anyone else.
Thanks for being with me.
@deviliclucifer
The article was previously published in here:(https://read.cash/@Lucifer01/mistakes-are-always-forgivable-if-one-has-the-courage-to-admit-them-9a04ee74)
