Hello everyone, I welcome you all to my blog Happy weekend. Hope you all are doing great? I am happy to be here once again to participate in this week's #Ladiesofhive contest topic which are given this time by @tibaire.
1️⃣ We women are known for carrying out several activities at the same time. Somehow we always balance our schedules to accomplish them all, even though sometimes that brings us excessive fatigue. My question is: what do you do when you feel exhausted? How do you regulate your physical, mental and emotional state to be yourself again?
Multitasking is a good quality God has bestowed on women or so we were made to believe, part of our feminity lies in being able to cook, talk on the phone, watch television,do some washing, surf the internet and even much more tasking for those that have kids and must attend to them.
This and many more we have seen our mothers and predecessors do and we follow them, we all have tried it and believe we are just gifted to be. If as a woman you can't do more than one chores at interval you are termed lazy.
Carrying out so many activities at the same time makes one lose focus sometimes end up being stressed, at the end of the day you might not get satisfied with the outcome.
Whenever I feel exhausted I take my time to rest and do my work bit by bit, I don't allow any work to affect my mental health, when the brain is overworked, you may be down.
As we are doing all these activities we need to take time and rest, so we don't break down ourself, there should be balancing. Whenever I feel down healthwise, I take precautions and do not allow it worsen. There is no award for the most stressed.
2️⃣ What do you think about the phrase "𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭?" Do you agree with it? Or do you prefer the phrase "𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲." I would like to know what you think.
Family comes first, I believe family comes first because they will always be there no matter what, even if your friends or lovers leave family be there, when sick or going through challenges, your happy moments, sad moments, they will come through for you, that is why to me I will put family first because they will put me first too, you can put family first and still be your priority, in the process of loving yourself you shouldn't neglect your folks. Love that we show in the family is what we extend to the society, this goes a long way in shaping lives.
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