Hy everyone, I hope the day is going fine. I will like to share some tips for child training a profitable financial investment. I am a single mum and trust me I got to understand that having a child isn’t a one person's business.
Shout out to all the single mums on hive, I wish you all positive energy towards your journey I know what you face and how you cope with it especially if the man isn’t there to assist like my case.
The beginning of my fate
Life is and has been fair when you play your games well. I came across a friend whilst in the university and it happens we all drove pass the narrow road which leads to love.
Along the line I became pregnant for him though this happened when I was in my final year and wouldn’t like to abort the child even though he told me to do so.
The man responsible for the pregnancy wasn’t able to meet up with taking care of both me and the child because he lost his job and life wasn’t fair to him, I had to inform my family about it and couldn’t hide anymore because the child is still part of my family. Since then I have been the one responsible for the child’s care until he got to this age.
About my Son
The name of my son is Focus, I choose to give him the name because I had promise never to be a single mum but i wasn't focused at it. I can’t imagine the stress to be gone but it takes the mindset of a genius to keep going and I am so much grateful for the opportunity given. It only made me face life in a different way. Life is more real.
Like I said his name is Focus and he is six years now, when he gets to the adolescent stage, I will do my best to also introduce him to hive.
The process of caring for Focus alone ate all my savings when I was informed by his dad he has lost his job. I wasn’t really bothered because I knew that was the initial aim behind him telling me to abort the child even though before he lost the job he has been the caring and understanding type and less of issue. Then I built my trust in him and still pray he finds one.
Once in a while he comes to check his son and I do advise him to keep searching for job though he is the hardworking type.
Here are the lessons I learnt from child training, a profitable financial investment
Be your child’s mentor
I like my son, he is intelligent like the father and loving too. I do teach him about how he should see life been the place of focus in everything. Like I take him to be a 27 year old boy so I do interact with him but honestly it wasn’t a cake.Education
This is what consumes most of the resources but it’s actually an investment because when the child grows up to become a responsible person in future, he never forgets who was behind his success. I am responsible for helping him on assignments in school and he is a fast learner though so I don’t experience much of stress because I assigned a tutor for him already.Teaching him the bible
Honestly I spend time to teach my son the bible, we use to talk about different bible stories and I am in search of a book currently called book of bible stories for kids. If you don’t have one for your child please do get it. It teaches the child how to read and understand event through images.I am selective of his Socials
There is a popular saying which goes this way show me your friend and I will tell you who you are. I am very selective of Focus friends in school not to join bad friends especially when he will be graduating from basics class. I am also considerate of the type of movies he watches only cartoons and nothing different and there are periods I assign for everything for him.
Every day he must learn when its learning hours and there is an assigned time for rest after school. And time also for cartoons and I do respect him for that because he is coping. He knows the exact time for his activities and he even wakes up the first.
My Sis And focus
Thanks so much for reading about me and my son, the methods I used in training him is profitable to me. Also other single mums can aswell drop their suggestion as no one is an island of knowledge. Thanks for your time; I wish you a nice day Hivers.
