En esta ocasión he decidido responder sólo a la primera pregunta.
Blessed day my dear Ladies of Hive. I hope you are having a nice and productive week. We will meet again in a new edition of the Weekly Community Contest, to which I would like to invite my colleagues @gabimramirez and @anaarevalo01 so that they are encouraged to participate and tell us about their experiences.
This time he decided to answer only the first question.
¿Quién es la primera persona a la que llamarías cuando estás en problemas?
Sin embargo, desde que salí del país, la comunicación con ella cambió un poco debido a la lejanía física; en mi opinión, las conversación telefónica no fluye de la misma manera que la comunicación personal cara a cara.
Por otro lado me parecía poco considerado contarle situaciones negativas o problemáticas a mi madre y causarle preocupaciones innecesarias.
La mayoría de los que estamos fuera del país sabemos que las madres siempre están atentas a las situaciones de los hijos, pero ellas, a su vez, también ocultan mucho de sus situaciones, precisamente para evitar preocupaciones.
This is a very good question, since I am a fairly private person but over the years I have learned to share my problems, anxieties and concerns a little with other persons. Some time ago the first person I went to when I had a situation was my mother, I used to tell her about my anxieties and problems.
However, since I left the country, communication with her changed a bit due to the physical distance; In my opinion, telephone conversations do not flow in the same way as face-to-face personal communication.
On the other hand, it seemed inconsiderate to me to tell my mother about negative or problematic situations and cause her unnecessary worries.Most of us who are outside the country know that mothers are always attentive to the situations of their children, but they, in turn, also hide a lot about their situations, precisely to avoid worry.
No obstante, considero que no a todo el mundo se le puede contar nuestros problemas y situaciones; no todos escuchan con la intención de ayudar o de ofrecer consuelo. Sigo siendo reservada e incluso cautelosa pero estoy consciente de la importancia de poder confiar en alguien que nos ayude a resolver nuestros conflictos.
Since then, when I have a situation that causes me anguish or concern, in addition to praying a lot, I also consult or discuss it with one of my sisters with whom I have a very special connection. I have learned that it is always good to be able to turn to another person to vent or to seek another point of view that can help us discern.
However, I consider that not everyone can be told about our problems and situations; not everyone listens with the intention of helping or offering comfort. I remain reserved and even cautious but I am aware of the importance of being able to trust someone to help us resolve our conflicts.
Esta ha sido mi humilde entrada para el concurso de la semana.
Gracias por leer saludos y bendiciones.
We are social beings by nature, therefore we cannot isolate ourselves; we must know where and to whom to turn in case of any circumstance that gets out of hand. I have always thought that asking for help is brave; just as I think we have a duty to help those who turn to us for help. So I consider myself a person who knows how to recognize when a situation is beyond me or beyond my control; which I appreciate because I am not so pretentious as to consider myself self-sufficient. To all these I must confess that my sustenance and orientation in the face of all adversity is prayer and after prayer the people I trust the most are my mother and my sister.
This has been my humble entry for the contest of the week.
Thank you for reading greetings and blessings.
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