Independence is the key😊(LOH contest#166)

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Happy New Year to all the ladies in the building, it's a blessing to be among the living ✌️😘 healthy and alive. I will be discussing on what I would be doing differently in this New year that I haven't been doing before.

Am a Daddy's girl and the normally call me daddy's pet, well I don't work for most of the things I get because my parents do that for me. Is not like we are that rich we are just medium class, normal people so I wouldn't want to create a big picture in your heads.

My schooling in college was my parents that sponsored it, so as I am planning to apply for a direct entry to the university I have decided to work hard both in my hive and other minor jobs in other to sponsor myself in school so that the burden on my parents shoulders would reduce .

Yeah I know right 😏🤫, it's a huge step for me because I have decided to start doing this for myself so I would stop depending on my parents for assistance in any little thing I want to do, I see my friends depending on men for things and in return they would give out their body to them and I just decided that wouldn't be me.

I don't want to be loose my self esteem, self respect, my confidence because am always begging men for money or assistance in doing something for myself, as a lady I want to be independent, I want to fend for myself, I don't want to become a burden to someone that's why I have decided to engage in hive more often.

That's my new year resolution, something I have decided to do for myself that I have neglected for awhile.
Thanks for reading through with me and your comments would be really appreciated😘.

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Hi @lady-bellar thank you for your good wishes for this year that has just begun, so be it. I find it wonderful, that you get your own income. That rejoices and strengthens us as ladies. My best wishes that you fulfill all your purposes and many successes in your university studies.
Health and well being for you and yours.

You are doing the right thing, I wish you best of luck and success

Not many who gets full support from their parents would make such a decision, that's a good one sis. So do you have a skill to make money with or what other minor jobs options do you have aside Hive?

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This year will be different for you if you put more hard work into Hive, you can achieve more from Hive and you do not need to call anyone for money. Wish you a prosperous new year dear

It's indeed a big step, sponsoring oneself through the university is not an easy thing to do.

I love this post! It is great for you to want to help lessen the burden on your parents without resorting to the immoral living that some fall into. Great decision, @lady-bellar! Wishing you the very best, dear.

That's a nice choice.
I wish you best of luck to be able to achieve your goals🙏

That's the spirit, just put that attitude into a plan of action.