When will all the troubles that come in life end?! What is the way to end the struggle of life?! How can the eldest daughter of a Bengali brown family or household who is unable to complete her graduation at the age of twenty-four, unable to even secure a part-time job, console herself that she cannot tell her father "don't worry, I am here" even if only to say.
The girl who, despite her efforts, is unable to provide treatment for her sick mother because she has no means of income, no way to earn money.
Age of parents increasing.... Father's cough sound becoming more intense.... Mother's hands and feet pain, increasing pressure and diabetes. Running to the doctor at regular intervals. Sometimes suddenly saying something like "I may not be here after so many years, then you will see me again" with a smile.
The unemployed elder daughter is sitting at home because she cannot get a job in this country without completing her graduation, but the girl is stuck in the session union and has not finished her graduation, that girl knows how difficult it is to see her parents aging in front of her eyes and struggling to run hundreds of expenses with limited income.
Before cooking, when the mother angrily says that the oil is running out, there is no fish and meat to cook , she do not have to express their bad mood behind that anger. It can be easily seen.
When the father, worn down by the weight of responsibility and age, comes back after the market with a dirty face, the unemployed girl does not understand that the difference between income and demand is too big. There are no more awkward things like these. They grow old in front of our eyes, their health deteriorates, we can't help but watch helplessly.
I see a lot of families who have no sons, all the girls get married and their in-laws have gone home! We don't feel sorry for these parents. Only when the boy's parents are alone, everyone breaks down. This topic worries me a lot. Girls also have a dream of becoming a pole in the old age of their parents.Girls also have a strong desire to support the family. Girls also feel sorry for not being able to do anything for their parents. As the society doesn't understand this, girls also can't explain to their parents, then there is a misconception that "it wouldn't be so difficult if there was a boy".
I am ready to take a tag called feminist in a negative way but all my intention was to tell the importance to understand the responsibility. Cause responsibility never see any gender. Understanding always is the key, in terms of responsibility it plays a vital role .
