My New Year Resolution #166

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New Year usually feels like the beginning of new chapters. It comes with that feeling of abandoning an old self in the past and starting a new life. Just like a new born without sin, new year feels like the beginning of new existence.

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Every year, I have the mindset of doing something special. And I have realize that there's a huge difference between dreams and goals. In my head, I have hundreds of goals to achieve, but without proper planning and strategy, it mostly doesn't come into actualization. And if it does, it's usually not all.

Over the years, I have discovered why I am unable to fulfill my goals and that is the beginning of my resolution for this year.
Few of the attitude that made my goals remain as dreams were
Unrealistic goals:- I listed out excessive goals without considering reality but when work and duties started demanding, I tend to use those time I set for my goals as a break time. This new year, I'm putting everything into consideration and taking baby steps. I'm prioritizing my goals and sticking to it.

Procrastination comes handy when I want to do something. All plans are well executed in my head but in action, I keep shifting and changing date. I've been fixing that towards ending of last year and this year I am really getting over it.

Defined time frame I tend to not have a fixed time to carry out an activity. All I care about is making sure that I do it daily but I found out that lack of specific time made me procrastinate. I feel like I still have more time before the day runs out, but the days turn into night and I then I tell myself "I'll do it tomorrow".

This New Year is going to be different from last year as I have acknowledge my weaknesses and make plans to fix them.

Here are goals I set out for my 2024

Establishing a well start as an Hiver I am just a few days old in Hive and I have been enjoying my stay especially in @LadiesofHive community with lots of amazing content to write on and to read from other ladies.
My major goal is to at least read and comment on at least 5 post in at least 5 communities no matter how tight my schedule for the day might be. I won't miss it.

Personal Growth One of my goals for 2023, was to learn a new language which I did. I learned Spanish but at some point, I got tired and change to Arabic. I wanted something new. This year I am resuming my Spanish classes and taking a 20 minutes classes each day no matter how tight my schedule might be.
Also, I am changing my genres of books taste to a new one. And I already found myself a reading a partner to review with.

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Fixed timeframe:- Having specific time for each activities will keep me in check. I won't have to be doing laundry when I ought to be in my Spanish class. Plus, I get to tick out all my daily goals at the end of the day before going to bed. I can always checkmate myself.

Baby Steps:- I realize, for me, daily activities is better than weekly or monthly goals. If I am able to tick out all activities for the day then, at the end of the week, I have been productive and that's something.

Being Productive:- Social media are tempting. I am cutting down the time spent on social media on doing more productive things.

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This year, one way or the other, I must be serious with my life. Make professional relationships and focus on my personal growth. I must glow and glow because, why not 😀.

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Happy new year darling...keep going higher babes.

I see you girl 😍... It can only get better.

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This is nice, Hive Goals and I'm glad you know what kept you from achieving them last year, good luck this year.
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Yes i did learn and I am definitely getting better. Thanks for the wishes

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