Hello hivers and blessed and happy new week !
Febuary naturally is a period where love is expressed, shown and reciprocated . The definition of love changes overtime an as such people's understanding differs. Love is a powerful tool in life.
Anything money can buy love through relationship can pay for it. The greatest and easieat way to succeed is through relationships. Relationahips ia a currency that can purvhase anything money can buy.who likes you can make all the different in your success story.
Sometimes we dont need a lot of people in our lives but a single soul to turn our lives around . Favour is who God has made to love you, and its amazing how your life can change when the right person loves you.
The truth is relationships do not maintain themselves, both parties involved must commit to maintain it and this can only be possible with the right partner.
I am answering to a prompt which says; The month of love is still in the air. As a lady, what do you consider more: careful decisions about whom to love, or the freedom to be spontaneous about it? Do you care more about present moments or future results of your decisions ? Why?
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https://www.istockphoto.com/en/photo/its-all-about-love-gm1504022968-523222033?phrase=love
Love is a word that is greatly used today in our world, and in our society and we attach it to affection and feelings, you hear people say i love you , i love my car, I love my boss, I love Jesus and so on . Its not a new or strange word, even little children will tell you they have an idea . We have always associated love with something positive. Love is a word that in many perspectives is misused and most times they dont understand the gravity of what they are saying .
And for many of us and societally speaking we are victim of this. The scopes of our understanding is hinged around enotions or attachement. We use the word kove to explain the goodness or positive attachement thatvthey have toward a person.
To my understanding true love is not emotions, it is not feeling, please dont get me wrong. There's an emotional componet when talking about love , thers has to be an emotional componet but love is not emotions.there's a lot of trouble in relationships,marriage, friendship because of this definition (feeling).The word feeling is a psychological disposition at a given time. Love creates feeling and emotions, butblove is not feeling or emotions. That's why relationship based on feelings and emotions can not be sustained. Feelings are temporal dispostition based on something we consider pleasant about someone.Building anything based on feelings and emotions is a gurantee for failure and frustration. Appearance, level of education, orientation, wealth, finances can create feelings in individuals about another individual.
Now there a four dimensions that explains or determines what love is and if these four dimensions are not in your definition or show of love then it isnt love
They are passion, committment, pleasure and sacrifice.
Source: https://www.istockphoto.com/en/photo/man-kissing-his-woman-gm1678002504-536429135?phrase=love
WHY I WOULD CAREFULLY DECIDED WHOM TO LOVE
In life the beauty and glory of and impactful life is determined by decision.
Making the proper decisions surely doesn't just keeps me in the right part but gives me a great future
Destiny is defined as the quality and kinds of decisions we make and every decision has it consequences and the results has been pre-programmed, meaning the moment the decision is made the consequence is ignited . The most critical decision to make in life as a lady is whom to love because love is a lifetime thing .
The various stories of shattered relationships, friendships, and marriages has taught me that carefully deciding whom to love is really important. Loving spontaneously was done during our childhood days when everyheart was still gentle and pure with good intentions.
As we grow we realize we have purposes which has to be achieved and as such we have to decided who stays and who does.
Before falling head over heels in love with whoever
I must know;
Backgroud of the my intended partner
Medical state of my intending partner
Psychological state
Family foundations
Then i can make my final decisions on wether to love or walk way happily.
I care more about the future results of my decisions rather than the present moments because my presnt decision is what decides my destiny and future (remeber future could be today, tommorow, in month time or even years). The consequences of my actions now would not just affect me but my children, life, and future generations. Always remeber that Decisions Decides Destiny.
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