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Good day and welcome to my post!
I am overwhelmed and grateful to God for the gift of life all through last year. A lot happened that seems it will be my end but here I am today with more strength and hope. In life, we meet people but not all of them are worth given a space in our lifes. I met a friend in 2022 whom I granted access to my life after evaluating him, he is popularly called "Mentor Philips". After we became friends, a lot of positive changes happened in my life because I humbled myself.
Mentor Philips is a teacher and a colleague who helped me when I was facing rejection in 2022. I was opened to him and I remembered the way he will always put a call through almost everyday to encourage me. He taught me the power of positive affirmations. I remembered in 2023, I made a statement that "I don't have money" immediately he corrected me that I should start confessing that I have money, this made my faith to grow and my words changed.
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I am older than him but he is wiser and more knowledgeable. Friendship with him really humbled me because I was a lady with lots of principles and pride. I learnt how to tolerate people the more from his behavior due to the fact that He is someone that you cannot predict most of his reactions so I learned to give room to accommodate people with their uniqueness. In 2023, he introduced me to a lot of opportunities ranging from tech skills, to scholarship opportunities and trainings that could aid my growth. He helped with most of my graphic designing job. Almost all the designs I did last year were first evaluated by him and this really made me a better person in designing.
I am on hive today, through his connection and that I do not take for granted. When I started posting I was someone who lacks confidence in my ability, he saw that I can write but I believed that I am bad in writing because I feel my english is not good enough. When I first started I was always forwarding my post to him to help me edit it. It got to a time he spoke to him although in a painful manner which I was already getting used to, but I never took it as an offence instead I gained confidence in myself. I stopped sending my post to him and I started editing my post too. I will ensure that I read multiple times so that I can correct my errors before posting and gradually I was able to make good posts.
Mentor Philips is a disciplinarian and bold person. I was at home around late November last year when he called to show is displeasure towards my performance on hive. He said I was wasting an opportunity that many are looking for and that Hive is no longer a platform that people joke with. I felt bad because I knew he was disappointed. I had to amend my ways and that really helped me in December to post and engage more on hive.
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My friendship with him is a lesson that one needs to be humble if you want to grow, we can't grow in isolation and there is no one that cannot grow. I am growing everyday.
My gratitude goes to my friend Mentor Philips, for always believing in me even when I don't, for helping and guiding me in most of my decisions and for his constant words of encouragement. I pray to see you in great places by God's grace. Amen.
"Thanks you,Mentor Philips", "thank you, ladies of Hive" for coming up with a topic that actually made me to reflect on my last year journey and to also be able to share and "thanks to all my friends on Hive" who are always supporting me.
God bless you all.
