Oasis or Mirage, Where does this end?

mcyusuf in #hive-125125 • last year

I have had more opportunities to be a quitter midway than to see the light at the end of the tunnel because I often find myself immersed in something catchy and end up lost unable to carry on. Wanting to know all makes a master of none.
Having enough pieces of unevenly sized bricks does not make building easy.

As inexpensive as dreams are, it is still unaffordable for some. Life is a beautiful place to live in, yet the ugly side is what some see. What comes with ease for one may be difficult for two. There have been dreams that never opened their eyes and some that got blinded by the piercing rays of instabilities.
That should not dictate the end though.

Few years back, I learnt to take out the Anxiety in my dreAms and put in a good dose of Excitement to make them dreEms. This way I was able to set my mind to accomplish some pending dreams and made them come into fruition.

This brings me to my DREEM SPACE.
As an introverted individual with social anxiety as well, I have always wanted a space where I can relate positively with other persons and build up my social self-esteem. I have one currently in existence, DreemPort, even though I have been lacking the skills to hone its potential to the fullest.

Looking at my progress chart for the year shows a waterfall compared to the last one. Would my dreem end up as an oasis or is it just a mirage that would disappear soon enough? Time would tell.

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emreal last year

Quitting is something most of us are tempted to do most times, especially when life hits so hard on us but then what shall we gain if we give up after putting so much effort to make a thing a reality?

It's on you to decide whether to keep what you have already started working on or not. Whether it becomes an Oasis or a mirage that would soon disappear is all upto to decide.

#dreemerforlife #dreemport

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mcyusuf last year

Well, we gain the chance start something new by quitting the old one. 🤣

I do hope for an oasis obviously. It's looking positive and vivid.

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emreal last year

It's true, if we don't let the out go, the new wouldn't come 🥰

Then go for it sir😊

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quduus1 last year

Quitting is something we fall back on when we feel like there is no way forward or improvement, but for me I have never been a fan of quitting, whatever I start, I always make sure to see its end, I quite understand your case as an introvert, I have friends who are just this way, I am happy you were able to make progress through Dreemport, I believe all you need to do is add more effort and you are good to go bro… it was nice reading about your dreemspace…
#dreemerforlife

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mcyusuf last year

Definitely more effort would be added.
Everyone's choice would be getting to the end of what they started, but choice is left to chance which does not favor all.
Thanks for reading through, dreemer.

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quduus1 last year

I am believing you will be able to do better, it’s just a matter of time, well done my man

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emrysjobber last year

I believe I know one or two things about social anxiety, since i have had experience with it. It builds up over time the more a person is unwilling to face and socialise more often. Most people suffering from social anxiety tends to identify themselves as introverts but sometimes they fail to realise it is just a cover to keep them intact in their comfort zone.

Though social anxiety might not seem hazardous until it starts influencing your public speaking abilities and you get nervous whenever you are trying to communicate with a group of people, for some people it get to an extent whereby they isolate themselves from others because they don't feel among or they feel they are not wanted.

Social media does not help because it only make it worse. Social media does not promote physical interpersonal communication and as you know anyone with social anxiety prefers intrapersonal communication because it doesn't involve anyone but themselves which is similar to what social media stands for, communicating with others without being seen.

I believe you should try to go out more often and try to engage in public discussions, it will help your progress.

Pop in from #dreemport
#Dreemerforlife

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mcyusuf last year

Thanks for popping in. 🙂

There are actually some who are willing and struggling to socialise, but the mind and body aren't in unison.
Anxiety is not a pleasant experience to say. The cold chills, difficulty breathing and quickened pulses, I'd rather avoid them if need be.

Positive progress is a necessity and things are a lot different from who I was. I now go out less often 😌 and stay away from meetings and public discussions 🥱. Change is not easy 😂

Yeah, social media is a mess and not a go-to for relating with people. Nothing beats physical interactions. I should take your advice into consideration.

Thanks, fellow dreemer...

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