Alguna vez cuando joven soñe con la llegada de ese principe azul, como en los cuentos de hadas, quien me iba decir luego que los sueños se hacen realidad, que llego a mi vida ese principe azul, pero no de un cuento de hadas, pero en la vida real.
Once when I was young I dreamed of the arrival of that Prince Charming, as in fairy tales, who would tell me later that dreams come true, that Prince Charming came into my life, but not from a fairy tale, but in real life.
Recibi una azul invitacion de esta comunidad por ser una mama azul, para participar en este concurso el cual nacio de una idea de @nanyuris, de @Womentribe.
I received a blue invitation from this community for being a blue mom, to participate in this contest which was born from an idea of @nanyuris, from @Womentribe.
Cuando somos madres o estamos embarazadas lo mas que pedimos es que nuestros bebes nazcan sanitos, completicos, los niños autistas tienen una gran diferencia con los niños Down, estos se detectan en los ecosonogramas, pero el autismo, no ya que muchos ya deben saber que es una condicion que se presenta despues de los dos años como en el caso de mi hijo.
When we are mothers or we are pregnant the most we ask is that our babies are born healthy, complete, autistic children have a big difference with Down children, these are detected in the echosonograms, but autism, not since many should already know that it is a condition that occurs after the age of two years as in the case of my son.
No estaba preparada para ello, pero lo asumi, me toco aprender muchas cosas para poder ayudarlo, porque tristemente en mi ciudad, no contamos con mucha ayuda profesional.
I was not prepared for it, but I assumed it, I had to learn many things to be able to help him, because unfortunately in my city, we do not have much professional help.
Pero como lo que vamos a contar son anecdotas, vivencias y mas, entonces estas son las de mi hijo @vicent21, que con ellos nunca se sabe que puede pasar, solo debemos estar listos.
But as what we are going to tell are anecdotes, experiences and more, then these are those of my son @vicent21, with them you never know what can happen, we just have to be ready.
Su primera visita a la playa fue como un trauma para el, le daba miedo tanta agua esa era la abuela tratando de bañarlo y el lloraba y a uno se le arruga el corazon pero hay que dejarlo. Ya en la segunda visita dos años despues, ya no le tenia miedo, mas bien la disfrutaba ya tenemos como 10 años que no vamos pero ya supero ese miedo.
His first visit to the beach was like a trauma for him, he was afraid of so much water, that was the grandmother trying to bathe him and he cried and one's heart crumples but you have to let it go. On his second visit, two years later, he was no longer afraid of it, he rather enjoyed it, we haven't been going there for 10 years now, but he got over that fear.
Durante su educacion preescolar y primaria lo disfruto no fue facil al principio pero luego del proceso de adaptacion superado lo demas fue facil.
During his preschool and elementary school education he enjoyed it was not easy at the beginning but after the process of adaptation he got over the rest was easy.
Ellos manejan o emplean unos vocablos que no lo usan los demas ni los adultos, un dia me dijo: "que no audiciono para el acto de Semana Santa y yo ahhh..", se lo conte a la maestra encargada y eso fue para ellos reirse, entonces para el grupo estable de la escuela si audiciono je je.
They handle or use some words that are not used by others or adults, one day he told me: "I do not audition for the act of Easter and I ahhh ...", I told the teacher in charge and that was for them to laugh, then for the stable group of the school if I auditioned hehehe.
Cuando ellos tienen un sueño un deseo, hay que tratar de ayudarlo a cumplirselos: Un dia llega contento de la escuela que iba a bailar, hasta me enseño como era el baile y todo, el pequeño incoveniente era el traje o vestuario, que debia ser algo como de epoca, por mas que busque, no encontre, pero no queria romperle su ilusion de no poder bailar, no me quedo de otra que alquilarle un traje, estaba encantado, despues no lo queria debolver ja ja, mas que causo un gran impacto en la escuela con ese traje"
When they have a dream or a desire, you have to try to help him to fulfill it: One day he arrived happy from school that he was going to dance, he even taught me how the dance was and everything, the small inconvenience was the costume, it had to be something like a period costume, no matter how hard I looked, I did not find it, but I did not want to break his illusion of not being able to dance, I had no choice but to rent him a suit, he was delighted, then he did not want to give it back ha ha, but he caused a great impact on the school with that costume".
Es demasiado impaciente no le gusta esperar o llegar tarde a algn lugar como la escuela, no le gustaba, asi que teniamos que apurarnos menos mal que la escuela era cercana pero el tambien daba mucha vueltas ja ja.
He's too impatient, he doesn't like to wait or be late to any place like school, he didn't like it, so we had to hurry, thank goodness the school was close but he was also running around a lot ha ha.
Para serles honestas, al salir de la escuela para el liceo no sabia si dejarlo seguor por lo que pudieran hacerle bullying, hasta que el mismo me dijo que lo inscribiera, entonces lo inscribi donde estudiaba la hermana para que estuviera acompañado, yo tuve que hablar con todos los profesores de como debian trabajar con el en su evaluacion, porque el no lee completamente pero si hace sus exposiciones.
To be honest, when I left school for high school I didn't know if I should let him follow him because he could be bullied, until he told me to enroll him, so I enrolled him where his sister studied so he could be accompanied, I had to talk to all the teachers about how they should work with him in his evaluation, because he doesn't read completely but he does his expositions.
Un dia me llamaron del liceo, para ver si daba permiso para que justo diera una charla sobre el Bullyin en el liceo, yo les dije que le preuntaran a el, si queria, si el decia que si, yo no me opondria, el acepto, yo le ayude con lo que iba a decir, lo hizo muy bien.
One day they called me from the high school, to see if I would give permission for him to give a talk about Bullyin at the high school, I told them to ask him if he wanted to, if he said yes, I would not object, he accepted, I helped him with what he was going to say, he did very well.
Cuando se le mete una idea en la cabeza es dificil de hacerlo cambiar de opinion, el trayecto para ir al liceo era muy agotador me dijo que lo cambiara a un liceo mas cercano a casa, eso implicaria, hablar de nuevo con los nuevos profesores, otro proceso de adaptacion, pero lo hice, eso fue para segundo año y ya esta en 4to año, los profsores han sido muy colaboradores y tambien corrio con la suerte que una compañera de la escuela estudia con el, y es nuestro apoyo cuando tenemos duda, si porque estudo con el.
When he gets an idea in his head it is difficult to make him change his mind, the journey to go to school was very tiring, he told me to change him to a school closer to home, that would imply, talking again with the new teachers, another process of adaptation, but I did it, that was for second year and he is already in 4th year, the teachers have been very helpful and he also had the luck that a schoolmate studies with him, and she is our support when we have doubts, yes because she studied with him.
Cuando pequeño el no comprendia de su condicion, ya mas grandecito que fue entendiendo, como que no debe tomar cafe o no en exceso asi como el chocolate.
When he was little he didn't understand his condition, but when he got older he started to understand that he shouldn't drink too much coffee or chocolate.
Desde que le enseñe como debia lavar su ropa, desde ese momento el lava su ropa, busca el agua le gusta lavar mas a la mano que en la lavadora, organiza su cuarto, ya se va a bañar solo, cuando salimos de compra el mismo escoge lo que quiere.
Since I taught him how to wash his clothes, from that moment he washes his clothes, he looks for water, he likes to wash more by hand than in the washing machine, he organizes his room, he already goes to take a bath by himself, when we go shopping he chooses himself what he wants.
Y quisiera contar muchas cosas mas, pero si hay una segunda parte esta historia continuara......
And I would like to tell many more things, but if there is a second part this story will continue......
Todas las fotos tomadas por mi con camaras, celulares, editadas en PowerPoint.
All photos taken by me with cameras, cell phones, edited in PowerPoint.
Traductor usado Deepl.//Translate used Deepl
No se de otra mama azul para invitarla, pero igual esta abierta la invitacion para ellas, porque tambien puede ser una hermana azul, abuela azul, porque no solo las mamis azules estan con esos principes azules, ellas tambien tendran mucho que decir de anecdotas, experencias, vovencias y mas, este es el enlace con las reglas https://peakd.com/hive-125730/@mundo.autismo/mundo-autismo-or-actualizacion-concurso-mujer-pinta-tu-corazon-de-azul-esp-eng
I don't know of another blue mom to invite, but the invitation is still open for them, because it can also be a blue sister, blue grandmother, because not only blue moms are with those blue princes, they will also have a lot to tell of anecdotes, experiences, experiences and more, here is the link with the rules https://peakd.com/hive-125730/@mundo.autismo/mundo-autismo-or-actualizacion-concurso-mujer-pinta-tu-corazon-de-azul-esp-eng
