We just wait for God's time and we do not have to seek for a wife or that kind Of woman that is described in the scriptures, GOD WILL PEROVIDE.
these were the opening words of Brother Eli in his teachings about finding a wife, let me take your mind back a little bit to what actually hapened in luke 10:40-42, its relate the story of jesus visit to mary and martha's house the moment jesus came in they both tried to welcome him and as a guest but mary was more concerned about jesus, what he will tell her to recieve his teachings, then martha was vex at her for not choosing to help out in the kitchen instead was seating at jesus' feet, thats when jesus replied her and said she "mary" has made the right choice.
The bible also point out that we should seek first God's kingdom and every other thing will be added to us, sorry i had to bring all that in to shades somelight on the bone of contention here according to Bro Eli...
GOD'S TIME
God has a specified time for all things he purposed to manifest untill its that time it won't be perfect, when the timing is right it will be perfect, if you look back to Genesis God first created the environment, created the man gave him responsibilities and then gave himba wife, so its first God then God will perfect all that concerning you and that include your wife, cause he knows you need her but he has to withhold her till certain things fall into place, esp. Taking Responsibility and been zealous about purpose then he will bring to you a wife after his kind to HELP you Fulfill that purpose or his divine mandate.
Its stated clearly in this scripture that every other thing including a PRUDENT WIFE is from the lord, a whole lot of persons can go off track to get married, start a business buy cars and live the life they all wanted, but if its not coming from the lord, it won't last, you see a lot of persons get married and get into several things that was not prompted by God and most of the time it doesn't last, they get a divorce, failed and go back to start all over again, cause God never approved of it, that's why God'stime is the best.
This thoughts has occupied my mind lately of settling Down and starting a family but the timing isn't just right at the moment however i am more at ease with my self after this teachings and a reminder that God is on my case and he won't forsake me but will perfect all that concern me when the time is right
