My Thoughts On Marriage.

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Few days ago I hard of a friend that I was looking up to, as a married couple, when I first met him he is so lively when he is with his wife, so interesting, each time I was with him before I got married, I always want to be marry, I love their home and how he is walking with his wife.

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Recently I hard a news of him living his wife for another woman it makes me to be scared for myself, I said to myself that if someone like this should have a problem in his marriage then I need Gods intervention in my marriage.

I came to understand that about 80% for the marriage to work out comes from the man, the man have the vital role to play for the marriage to work, I was talking to a friend of mine few days ago about this issue, as a minister of the gospel, I take my marriage as my life, I prepared for so many years.

You know, a lot of people just bashed into marriage without knowing what marriage really is, someone once said, when you run into marriage you will end up running out, before stepping into marriage you should know what marriage really is before taking that life long commitment.

This my friend is almost twenty years in marriage now just because is wife didn't put to birth then he want to put her away, I have few questions.

Why do you want to marry?

What is your purpose for marriage?

What is the essence for marriage?

If you can come with a clear understanding of this, then it will really do some good. You must have a vision of the kind of home you want to start, don't marry because you need children, children comes as part of the blessings in marriage, when I was praying for life partner, I was looking for companionship and a wife that we will saved the Lord together and one that will help in supporting my vision this the kind of mentality I got married with, and by Gods grace am enjoying my marriage.

Money is not what you need in marriage, you need knowledge because marriage is a school of it own where you receive certificate before you start the journey, we will continue in the next part.

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I am now at three years of being happily married to my wife.

Why do you want to marry?
What is your purpose for marriage?
What is the essence of marriage?

These questions are valid and to be able to asses everything ministers should conduct seminars about what is the true purpose of marriage. It is hard for sure, as two concepts and ideas will clash day by day. Arguments arise from simple to complicated things and you will find yourself or even your spouse asking am I still loveable but then again you go back to those questions.

Why did you marry and why you chose that person? This will lead to forgiveness and accepting the flaws of the other party.

Marriage can be both threatening and promising. Lucky for those you found the right person but still lucky for those who did not because this will make you a strong person.

Yes, but marriage is sweeter with the right person, and try to understand each other.

Great thoughts, thanks for visiting my blog.