An existential cocktail...

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It's happened to me...

To be successful it is not enough to wish for it, you have to work, you have to earn it. We know that the search for success also involves encountering unforeseen obstacles, therefore, being willing to fail or that something gets out of control or, as has happened to me, it takes longer to reach the goal than I thought.

I've said this to myself many times...

"What has no structure does not prevail." Well, success is based on that premise. Our structure, the clan, with all its imperfections, sustains us and reminds us that what we learned at home should stay at home, be practiced at home and repeated in your future home.

In this way, success is always presented to us as something provisional, something not definitive, something that we cannot claim to have completely achieved.

It's a heartbreak. A check and mate. We don't trust what we've worked for day in and day out.

We are born in an environment where people and families, and of course, the revered clan, are expected to demand that we be someone in life ha ha ha, and it turns out that since I exist I am someone "a human being". It's simple 2+2=5.

Why?

Because it is easier to cling to repetition, to a false humility, to not being who we really are. Basically, what we want is recognition, and that's not success. So, what has structure does prevail.

And do you know what the structure of success is?

Very easy to answer, recognize everything I have done so far. Now, let me believe it and let it be known that it is a super task.

It is at that moment that I must adjust, apply changes and endure to keep fighting, over and over again, until I achieve it. At least I don't give up, not much less if I want to attract easily and without so much effort a noble and just goal.

It's my obsession to succeed.

For this, I change my methods, but without altering my desires. I am a very perseverant and flexible woman, maybe this will increase the chances of success.

It's all about one approach. Although everyday life distracts me.

I can't be successful thinking that I'm going to fail, and I put on my pills to look where I want to go, think, eat, bathe, doing exercises, whatever I'm doing, if I want to be successful humility I leave aside because this virtue is not a friend of success.

My Stoic reminder is......

The world is immune to emotions, it responds only to your actions, it is the reflection of success, love, values, and professionalism, in this case personal is a magnanimous existential cocktail. What is your reminder to be successful? We talk to each other in comments.

Janitze.