That's enough, that's enough.
There are struggles that are not worth it, really, stop spending energy on something that generates more stress than relaxation
Let's get fashionable: "Don't have an opinion about other people's bodies" 🤐
Will this be understood one day? I always wonder.
That's what it's called.
Complex, frustration," when Pepa talks about Juana. He talks more about Pepa than about Juana," that's for sure.
This is how social networks are, a meeting place for "OPINIONATORS" or thinkers by trade, where everyone who is an expert in everything, without having studied it at all, are many humans letting go of their internal conflicts.
Two days ago, an individual from an origin different from my nationality, arrived at one of my last posts and let me know that these words are "low in calories" and that it is perceived better in women who consume chicken and meat.
One comment for the simple fact that I don't eat much red meat...🙈
Destructive criticism is unacceptable, people are full of SHORTCOMINGS and are very bitter.
Talking about another woman's body is the lowest thing that can exist, and yes, it is one of the conversations that happens most on social networks, as if it were the WhatsApp chat of the Condominium Board of a building.
Says So and so, Perolita, Pepito, Perencejo, that one and the other, the most absurd of all is that they think as if they knew the person in question, they talk about thyroid problems, what he eats or not, Diabetes and so on. Men and women alike.
If she's plump, skinny, athletic, it doesn't matter, the important thing is always that no one likes the way the fuck you look, that's what it's about, that everyone has an opinion and on top of that you have to put up with it because of:
You are a public figure! either you are a university teacher, or whatever you are on your social media portal, there is no other way for you.
NOW... THEY NEVER SAY OR ASK THEMSELVES BEFORE WRITING:
-Will she be sad? Will she feel depressed? How will she feel?
No, because it's always better to assume stupid things and say them.
Always being stupid is the solution, but even better, be stupid and put it on Social Networks, so it will be registered on the Internet forever and everyone will be able to see what you wrote!
I REPEAT, NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE, THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO CRITICIZE IT. And 95% of the criticism, unfortunately, is often other women.
They should be tattooed as a daily reminder “NO CRITICISM OF ANOTHER WOMAN'S BODY" thank you!
No one knows what every human being carries inside.
When one issues an opinion on social networks, one should ask oneself first, if one would say the same thing to the face of the person to whom one is questioning.
I say to your face: I love you, sister ❤️ You have always been beautiful, before, now and in the future.
We have to enjoy the present, what we have, conform and avoid banal greed and I'm not talking about money, but about wanting that else, obsessively in a different way, in a sick way, as if that were going to make us happy.
I am totally convinced that we have found freedom just at that moment when we no longer fear the judgment of others and we slip whether they approve of us or not.
Janitze 🌹
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL