Unforgettable tragedies that befell my family

in #hive-1261528 days ago

Ohh, what a world!!!

Although years have passed, yet, I can't sleep throughout a week without remembering those tragedies that befell our family starting from the year 2006-2009.

Ahh, for good 3 years, tears didn't dry from our family. infact, we tagged it, black years because it was only filled with tears. Now, let me talk about different tragedies that befell our family those years.

On August 2006, my dad's only kid sister died after a brief ailment. She woke up hearty and healthy that very day. But while dressing up to go out, she felt sharp headache and shouted My head, my head. She was rushed to hospital but before reaching the nearest hospital, she gave up. Imagine! just like that we lost her. I cried bitterly because there was these cordial relationship between me and her and I was even planning to visit and stay with her throughout the next holiday season. Ahh, it was all like a dream.

Worse yet, while trying to cope with her death, in the year 2007, the husband of my mom's immediate sister was arrested because of minor community misunderstanding in July 2007 and was kept in the village council hall. 2 days later, as the family came out in the morning, they saw his corpse right in front of their door post. What a wicked world!!!

Base on research, they carried the man and hit his head on the village well and he died. Words can't express how terrible the experience was both to his wife, children and we their immediate relatives. A man that walked out from his house by himself now returned as corpse.

His death resulted to severe case and that prolonged his burial. On February the next year being 2008, he was buried. But, 3 months later, May 14th precisely, my lovely Dad kicked out the bucket 😭. It was as if Mr death just remembered our family and couldn't let us rest. He died at the age of 65. I never expected Dad to die. His death changed almost everything about me, both my view of people, emotional feelings and otherwise, because his own brother confessed that he was the one that killed him mysteriously just because Dad has so many lands.

My dad same year before he died

when dad was young

If to say Dad died without uttering a word, it would have been better for me because his last words while fighting for his life that morning before giving up is what I always do remember.

He looked at me and my sister standing beside him and said, So you people are here but couldn't help or fight for me? we will see in God's Kingdom. immediately, he gave up leaving me alone in this world as a fatherless. But, there was these my cousin sister that even cried more than me when Dad died. Why? ever since the father died and was buried, she sees my father as her father because we lived together years ago and my father took good care of her. Hmm, on Monday, the 28th day of July 2008, dad was buried.

7 months later, that my cousin sister who was 24 years then died mysteriously on a Sunday right inside church auditorium. Base on research, it's the madam that taught her sewing as a skill that killed her. According to the madam, she was asked to bring someone for ritual that's why she used my sweet elder sister for ritual. See how we came to know the truth.

Years later, about 5 years later, the madam tried using another of her apprentice who is somehow disabled and her cult rejected the offer and was bitterly angry with her to the extent they struck her with madness. On the process, she confessed how she have been using people she loved as ritual including my cousin sister.

Among all the death experiences we had for the past years, her's was the most ugliest because she was healthy and hearty but all of a sudden, she just fell and gave up immediately within a blink of an eye at an early stage in life. That very Sunday, none of us was able to hold the other. The mom cried and cried and our cries couldn't bring her back.

My prayer

My sole prayer is for God to remove such untimely death from us and for me not to always remember those incidents because it hurts.

I couldn't get all their pictures because am now living in town while their pictures are in our village house. Pls bear with me.

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Death really is a very bad enemy that God should eleminate quickly, because it causes pain in the family where it happened,

Exactly, it's our greatest enemy and should be eliminated for us to have peace of mind.

Yes that is true

This is really sad, i hope you didn't cry when writing this. God has promised us a better hope for the future, just like dad said we would see in God's kingdom. As servant of Jehovah all hope is not lost, the resurrection gives us hope to see our dead loved ones again.

Jehovah would surely comfort you and your family, nothing like untimely death would hit your family again.

Jehovah is with you 💞

Amen ooh. Those years was as if the world has come to an end. But today, we are better and are now comforting others as well. For sure, I have the real hope if seeing my dad and my cousin sister in the new world at hand.

This is really a touching one, it's really saddening how heartless humans can be, the extent humans can go for money, the things greed and envy could lead us to do, human life is something precious, it can not be equated to any other thing on earth, buh yet some people see it as something, they can do away with as they wish, this is really a saddening one

But in all we take hope from God's promise of everlasting life, and his promise to eliminate death, which your dad believed on right until his death.

My dear brother, death really slapped our family then and we couldn't believe we could bear it. Nevertheless, the resurrection hope is a big relief and that's my personal hope.

There's a saying that when you think your is worst just wait for someone to talk about his/her own.
I used to think mine is worse not until you told your story. Dear sister, it might be years gone but you're still in pained because loosing a love one in death isn't easy not to talk about loosing them in numbers. But the Holy writings has comforted, be comforted by the resurrection hope.

My dear for sure, life sometimes is miserable but all those tragedies comforted and soothed me. Thanks for the comfort.

So emotional, Am just speechless.
Take heart nnem, may the resurrection hope comfort you. Stay strong

Since I survived those painful tragedies, Jah will continue helping me. Resurrection hope assured

This is horrible, just take heart, death has no remedies but the love of Jesus is stronger than everything else.

Am telling you!

Death is inevitable and I think it's the worst that can happen to anyone. For real, Jesus Christ is always there to help us with comforting words from both friends like you and the scriptures.

You are blessed, have a good night sleep 😴.

I'm so sorry for what happened and everything you've been through. I'm sure Jehovah has been a source of comfort to you and he forever will.

Yea, he is and I believe he won't give up on me until I see myself in his kingdom where there will be no more death and mourning

That must have been such a painful time for you and your family.i can't imagine how difficult it was to go through all that in a space of few years.i hope you've found strength and healing over time.your experience shows that life is unpredictable,we just have to trust in God, remember God promises whenever you feel sad about this, don't forget that you will see your dead loved ones again.

Sylvia, It was heartbroken but remembering that God is always near to the brokenhearted and also ready to wipe our tears are all comforting to me. One day, death will be a thing of the past. That's my hope.

What an ugly world, past year 2024 was like that to me starting from January to November, lost 4 family members.

Hope of resurrection is the way forward

So sorry for all these tragedies, good to know you are getting past them keep clinging on to Jah for support

That's my sole hope and I know it's all left for me now to do my best so as to see them in the new world

Very touching, I really feel for you,
Sorry about everything and you shouldn't continue to feel bad hence there is still hope of resurrection, you can still meet with your loved ones again.