I recall a moment from my school days when I was drawing water from a well. Feeling thirsty, I considered drinking from the well but hesitated, thinking the water might not be safe. I reasoned with myself that the water in my room, which I drank from, also came from the ground. But then I realized that the water in my room came from a tap, whereas the well was exposed to various contaminants from people drawing water from it.
sourceThis made me understand that just as too many people drawing water from a well can make it unclean, having too many irrelevant people in our lives can make us unproductive. On the other hand, having a few meaningful relationships can make our lives fruitful. Moreover, having too many advisors, mentors, or role models can lead to confusion, making it hard to know which guidance to follow. But with just one trusted mentor, we can benefit and grow.
Don't be be surrounded by many people who we be draining energy and distracting you from your goals. But have a few close friends who can encouraged and supported you.
sourceA tap can have just one or two pipe connected to the well and can supply many water than a many drawer. Only a few quality friend , mentor that we can engage in meaningful conversations, and showing genuine interest in our lives. In return, can offered valuable advice, support, and encouragement , with that we can found joy and fulfillment in our lives.
I also realized that just as a well's water can irrigate a entire garden, nurturing our relationships and priorities can have a ripple effect, bringing growth and beauty to all aspects of our lives.
Another thing is that just as we come together to draw water from the well we can also come together as quality friends to share something meaningful ideas together.
Let always prioritize and building meaningful connections with those around us, through that found joy in sharing experiences, supporting one another, and celebrating each other's successes.