[EN/PT-BR] In the worst case scenario, do you stop or keep going?

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One thing I noticed when watching some anime and series on streaming is how people don't give up in certain adverse situations, like, everything is screwed up and now what are we going to do? They simply accept the challenge and defeat of the moment, take a break, recover and then come back stronger to overcome the challenge or situation that happened. OK, we know that fiction is one way and reality is another, but I wonder, are we like that in reality too?

I think that, deep down, I'm not that strong when it comes to this. When situations of loss or intense problems happen, I usually complain about everything and simply let it go. Sometimes a really annoying problem happens too, but I end up being able to focus and move on to overcome the challenge and thus come out victorious in the end, but I think that only happens in simpler and more modest problems. Sometimes, in streaming, we see some things that make us say that expression "only in movies" and I think that's something along those lines.

We are not machines, much less do we have programs installed in our minds that allow us to easily overwrite our feelings and thoughts. We think and try to do what is possible, what cannot be changed, cannot be changed and we stop trying for the time being. Now, I know that there are also exceptional people, this reminds me of when I used to watch news reports on television about people who were extremely screwed (not to say another word) and who in the end recovered and are now victorious, have moved up in life and today their situation is stable and peaceful.

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This is a situation that makes me think “if it were me, I wouldn’t be able to handle it, I would have stopped right there” and well, that’s it. I try to learn from everything I see or hear about, from the stories, from the challenges, from the people who went through unhealthy situations, but somehow managed to get up and evolve. Maybe it was faith, maybe love or simply the willpower to get out of there, out of that shitty situation, and that moves me, because I would like to be someone like that too, or at least improve this in myself, this resilience to face the worst problems with a smile on your face and hope in your heart.

So, in the worst of situations, do you stop or keep going? Do you always try to do everything possible? Do you give your best? Do you throw yourself into it without fear of the parachute not opening? It's insane to think like that, but it's what's been going through my head these days. I think that maybe being perceptive about things gives us more of a sense of giving up, while some people simply don't think and just act and it seems like everything works out better for them. Maybe that's what it means, in certain difficult moments, not to think and just act.

How do you deal with these situations? What do you think about this text and reflection? Is it possible to be strong enough to face the most diverse types of problems just by changing your mindset? Just by believing that it's possible to overcome the problem? Feel free to leave your thoughts in the comments.

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Uma coisa que percebi vendo alguns animes e seriados pelo streaming é como as pessoas não desistem em certas situações adversas, do tipo, está tudo ferrado e agora o que faremos? Elas simplesmente aceitam o desafio e a derrota do momento, dão um tempo, se recompõem e depois voltam mais fortes para vencer o desafio ou a situação que aconteceu. OK, sabemos que a ficção é de um jeito e a realidade é de outro, mas fico pensando, será que somos assim na realidade também?

Acho que, no fundo, eu não sou tão forte assim em relação a isso. Quando acontecem situações de perda ou de problemas intensos, geralmente costumo reclamar de tudo e simplesmente deixo de lado. Às vezes acontece algum problema bem chato também, mas acaba que consigo dar foco e prosseguimento para vencer o tal desafio e assim sair vitorioso no final das contas, mas acho que são apenas em problemas mais simples e modestos. Às vezes, no streaming, vemos algumas coisas que nos fazem dizer aquela expressão “só em filme mesmo” e acho que é algo por aí mesmo.

Nós não somos uma máquina, muito menos temos programas instalados em nossas mentes que nos permitam sobrescrever os sentimentos e pensamentos com facilidade. Pensamos e tentamos fazer o que é possível, o que não dá para mudar, não dá e paramos de tentar presentemente. Agora, sei que também existem pessoas excepcionais, isso me faz lembrar quando via jornais na televisão que mostrava reportagens com pessoas que ficaram extremamente ferradas (para não dizer outra palavra) e que no fim, recuperaram-se e hoje são vitoriosos, subiram na vida e hoje a sua situação é estável e tranquila.

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Situação essa que fico pensando “se fosse eu, não daria conta, teria parado ali mesmo” e bem, é isso. Tento aprender com tudo isso que vejo ou fico sabendo, dos relatos, dos desafios, das pessoas que passaram por situações insalubres, mas de alguma forma conseguiram se levantar e evoluir. Talvez tenha sido a fé, talvez o amor ou simplesmente força de vontade de sair dali, daquela porcaria de situação e isso mexe comigo, pois gostaria de ser alguém assim também, ou pelo menos melhorar mais isso em mim, essa resiliência em enfrentar os piores problemas com um sorriso no rosto e a esperança no coração.

Então, na pior das situações, você para ou continua? Tenta sempre fazer tudo o que é possível? Dá o máximo de si? Se joga sem o medo de o paraquedas não abrir? É insano pensar assim, mas é o que martela minha cabeça por esses dias. Acho que talvez ser perceptivo com as coisas nos traga mais essa sensação de desistência, enquanto alguns simplesmente não pensam e apenas agem e parece que tudo dá mais certo para eles. Talvez seja isso, em certos momentos complicados, não pensar e apenas agir.

Como vocês enfrentam essas situações? O que você pensa sobre esse texto e reflexão? Será que é possível conseguir ser forte para enfrentar os mais diversos tipos de problemas apenas mudando o mindset? Apenas acreditando ser possível superar o problema? Sinta-se à vontade para deixar nos comentários.

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Bzzzrrr, I love how anime shows us that even when things get tough, we can still come back stronger! But, in reality, it's not that easy, right? I mean, I'm all about learning from others' stories and trying to be stronger, but sometimes it's hard to keep going. Still, it's inspiring to see people overcome challenges and come out victorious! #hivebr

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Eu aprendi muitas coisas com os animes e filmes que assisto, gosto muito das partes em que eles superam algum obstáculo ou problemas específicos.

Animes são uma boa fonte de positividade, muitos deles os personagens passam por verdadeiros problemas sinistros e mesmo assim demonstram uma força de vontade enorme em sair daquela situação. É inspirador.