Hola queridos amigos de @holos.lotus, saludos a todos, en esta ocasión viendo el Post de @minismallholding tomo prestado su reflexión sobre este tema para dar mi opinión al respecto.
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El perdonar suena tan sencillo, pero conlleva a una gran responsabilidad, ya que el perdonar no es simplemente decirlo con palabras bonitas, o decir si te perdona, es interiorizar aquello que no te deja avanzar, aquello que te oprime y te hace pensar cosas malas, el perdonar es una responsabilidad no solo contigo mismo sino con todo aquello que requiere tu perdón, es abrir un nuevo camino para ser alguien mejor, para lograr vivir un mundo mejor.
Debo decir que hace mucho tiempo pensaba que el perdonar era simplemente algo que solo se decía por palabras, que no importaba si en verdad perdonabas de corazón, porque sentía que si se hacía de esa manera, la persona que te hizo daño lo volvería a hacer, que el perdonar era algo que solo una persona débil lo podría hacer, y que equivocada estaba, que mal estaba de verdad, la débil era yo, porque el perdonar no es algo sencillo, no es simplemente emitir la palabra, es dar un paso a dejar atrás el pasado y comenzar un futuro nuevo.
Cuando se logra perdonar de verdad tu vida cambia por completo, te sientes mejor contigo mismo, vez a la otra persona diferente, no digamos que la vuelves apreciar como antes o que la dejas entrar normal a tu vida, pero si al menos no se ve con rencor y dolor, al contrario se ve con compasión y tranquilidad, es una manera en el que el cuerpo y el alma pueden estar en paz, ya que guardar rencor no ayuda en nada, te amargas, vez todo mal, simplemente te tranca y te limita a continuar con tus actividades.
Como he dicho antes perdonar no es fácil, porque cuando se quiere perdonar de verdad no es algo que se puede tomar a la ligera, porque cuando se decide perdonar debe ser con firmeza, sabiendo que dejaras todo lo malo atrás, que, si ya la relación claramente no será igual, pero al menos evitaras las malas palabras y los malos ratos, no todo es sencillo e ir por el camino del perdón tiene sus altibajos, pero es un camino que vale la pena seguir.
Porque te nutre, te da fuerza y te permite apreciar cada segundo que vives con mayor plenitud, agradecimiento y enfoque en lo que realmente importa, el Perdonar implica que ya las cosas no son las mismas, que superaste lo malo y que eres mejor que ayer, aprendí que a veces el pedir perdón lleva su tiempo, pero a la final el tiempo de Dios es perfecto así que cuando toque perdona y líbrate de esas cadenas que te atosigan.
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Hello dear friends of @holos.lotus, greetings to all, this time watching the Post from @minismallholding I borrow his reflection on this topic to give my opinion on the matter.
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Forgiveness sounds so simple, but it entails a great responsibility, because forgiveness is not just saying it with nice words, or saying if you forgive, is to internalize that which does not let you move forward, that which oppresses you and makes you think bad things, forgiveness is a responsibility not only with yourself but with everything that requires your forgiveness, is to open a new path to be someone better, to live a better world.
I must say that a long time ago I thought that forgiving was simply something that was only said in words, that it didn't matter if you really forgave from your heart, because I felt that if you did it that way, the person who hurt you would do it again, that forgiving was something that only a weak person could do, and how wrong I was, how wrong I really was, the weak one was me, because forgiving is not something simple, it is not simply saying the word, it is taking a step to leave the past behind and start a new future.
When you are able to truly forgive your life changes completely, you feel better with yourself, you see the other person differently, let's not say that you appreciate them as before or that you let them enter your life normally, but at least you do not see them with resentment and pain, on the contrary you see them with compassion and tranquility, it is a way in which body and soul can be at peace, since holding a grudge does not help at all, you become bitter, you see everything wrong, it simply locks you up and limits you to continue with your activities.
As I said before forgiving is not easy, because when you really want to forgive is not something that can be taken lightly, because when you decide to forgive it must be firmly, knowing that you will leave all the bad things behind, that, if the relationship will clearly not be the same, but at least you will avoid bad words and bad moments, not everything is easy and going down the path of forgiveness has its ups and downs, but it is a path that is worth following.
Because it nourishes you, gives you strength and allows you to appreciate every second you live with greater fullness, gratitude and focus on what really matters, Forgiveness implies that things are no longer the same, that you overcame the bad and that you are better than yesterday, I learned that sometimes asking for forgiveness takes time, but in the end God's timing is perfect so when the time comes forgive and free yourself from those chains that torment you.
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