Just recent James just Started off His new Job which was paying Him really well, but then James needed to be close to someone who hears and understands him for who he is.
He got a great opportunity to meet a Beautiful Lady called Clara. Clara was a decent girl who also works in the Same Company With Him but then as time went by they drew closer to each other sharing wonderful memories together...
James and Clara had decided to take things to the next level by getting serious with themselves, By this Time they felt it was necessary to get verified in other aspects that would guarantee their Union. James has already proposed to Clara and Without hesitation Clara said a Big Yes to James seeing he was the perfect man for the perfect future.
They even went further making out some medical checkups like their Genotype, Blood Group and many more as recommended by the Doctor making them perfectly okay Medically.
They had even planned on the Numbers of Children they were going to give birth to and and the Sex as well... Two Boys and a Girl to tell you how serious they were when they decided to push things further.
Well, after their Wedding night💍 Families and Friends brought in their Well Wishes and sent their gifts wishing them farewell for their newly found path together. As usual the noise dies down and it is now time for them to build their Lives together. As every Nigerian parent would wish, they had expected them to begin bearing Children that would take after them when they are gone...
THE UNEXPECTED WAS ABOUT TO BLOW UP... While they both planned for their Perfect Future they never gave room for the Unexpected and how they were going to deal with them when they occurred. Months went by and years began to Count but still no pregnancy as Expected. What could be the Problem was their major concern, who could this problem be coming from? could it be James or Clara their thoughts were ringing these bells silently. Medically they were Okay but still no trace of where the problem could be coming from.
Mother-in-laws from both Ends have put their CCTV eyes on, looking expectantly for any good news from their end. Whenever Clara is seen the first thing they look out for was the size of her belly and now their Union was beginning to grow weary because of the too many questions that were coming through. They stopped attending occasions especially Family Occasions...
They weren't financially stable enough to go for IVF(in vitro fertilization) neither were they capable for any of the artificial methods reason being they've spent alot on themselves running series of test.
Their Perfect Future was beginning to sit on the Fence, for Five years had gone by about entering the Sixth but still no issue, advice from family and friends began coming on the abortion of their vows and doing away with themselves.
They never thought they would get to this point of their Lives. They never expected nature would turn out for them this way, they never expected that even when one is Medically okay they can still face challenges of not being able to birth a child at the Moment.
They had thought they had all things figured out but to their surprise they never thought about Planning for the Unexpected. They never expected that the In laws that were very friendly at first could turn a bad look at them just because they weren't able to birth a Child
They never thought that they would be redrawn from Public services because of this stigmatization, they never expected that they would lose their respect in Family Meetings just because He(James) has not proven himself to be a Man.
While they were doing a lot of planning on how they would manage things they never thought of this Question "What if the Unexpected Happened?" "What if they never got all they wanted in their Marital Home? How were they going to respond in such cases.
Although this Affected their Relationship leading them to Devoice and even Clara quitting from her Job. They never thought that they would say goodbye to themselves in this manner. The Perfect Future Has just Been Ruined...
In Life we expect So Much out from Life that we forget to make room for the Unexpected. Well sometimes this comes to us the least we expected and it tends to ruin our day, months and even our Lives. We never know what the Morrow would bring that doesn't mean we shouldn't make plans for them and as well while we make plans we can leave some spaces Incase the Unexpected Strucks us.
Planning for the Unexpected Makes us Ready for the Bad days and gives us strength even before they arrive.
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