Hello dear community of @womentribe greetings to all, today I come to give my opinion in this Inciativa from @eldiariodelys that I found very interesting, especially because it deals with a topic that sometimes out of fear or simply to accept what they give us we move away from loneliness and see it as something bad in our lives.
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I must say that I had to learn the hard way to accept loneliness, at first I saw it as terrible, as something that consumed you and made you feel terrible, but as the situation went on, I understood that loneliness can become your best friend, of course everything in excess hurts that is always so and applies to everything, but if necessary you must be with this friend, which simply helps you think better and clarify the whole picture around you, to realize what really matters but above all to value yourself and to fight more for what is really good.
In my last relationship I must say that I understood that accepting less does not make you well, that feeling little valued destroys you not only inside, but also outside, that makes you make decisions that are wrong and simply do not give productive progress in your life, simply for fear of falling into loneliness, by being a little or a lot of time alone, you can go down a path of sadness and suffering worse than being alone, so that should never be allowed, I learned that you have to love yourself first and support yourself in what really matters, being alone is not the problem, living with someone who makes you feel alone is.
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Now, speaking of love, it is present in every moment, even in loneliness itself, because it allows you to arm yourself, to value yourself, to appreciate those moments, no matter how small they may be, the everyday, to spend those moments that change your day and make you feel happy, love is always present, in any moment, in any detail, in that person who you least believe can fill you with love and joy. It is such a pure and magical feeling to give an incentive to continue living.
So love is something that can not be left aside, even if you do not have partners, it is always there, as well as loneliness, it is not bad to take some time alone, value yourself and value all the aspects that surround you, listen to yourself and think better what you want and make everything flow better, today I would say that I am better alone, At least for the moment, one can not say I do not drink of this water, everything comes at the perfect time of God, so it happened to me with my son, that pure love came at the time I needed it most, so loneliness does not imply something eternal, it only gives you the opportunity to prepare yourself and arrive at the right time.
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