It is the nature of a man to knock and not to open the door is the beauty of a woman.
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Never open the door at every knock, neither the door of the heart, nor the door of the mind, nor the door of thoughts, nor the door of emotions, this door should be opened only on the arrival of the real life partner.
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Never give your personal time to a stranger, there will come a time when he will point a finger at your character and give you mental tension. So the final thing is to keep in touch with everyone within a limit, this will keep you safe and your peace of mind.
Liking someone is a natural thing, but!
Never misuse this passion-
Make a straight path and a legitimate and pure relationship of marriage.
And if you think that your family members are not in favor of this relationship. And this relationship will not be able to move forward. So to avoid later pain and suffering, end it there. Especially girls should know this.
In the excitement of youth, men find every woman, every girl good, and women find every man's love true. Even just looking at a woman is a reward to a man, and a little sympathy from a man is seen as a confession of love to a woman. ### This is the age of such follies and the heart likes to dream.
So it happens that even the slightest thought comes to someone, then we think that we have fallen in love or if we like something about someone, then we think that he has fallen in love with us. And then we rush into the big decisions of life. Such love happens.
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Don't open up to anyone's trust and marry if you really love, because love needs respect, don't call other carnal desires as love.
That a man who loves a woman with a true heart, respects and respects her, keeps it hidden from everyone. I don't want to let anyone else look at it. And if he doesn't, it means that the woman is not into his heart, just a pretense used to increase self-importance among friends that I also have a good thing to entertain. It only has a relationship of purpose or interest, not respect!
We pray to Allah Almighty to protect the honor of every daughter and every sister. And grant him the grace to understand his position.
Ignorant and stupid girls should understand this. A man always loves and respects a girl whom he gets in a halal relationship, i.e. by becoming a Mahram in marriage.
And such a girl who adorns herself for the non-mahram, she also loses her dignity and trades her shame and revelation.
And much to the chagrin of the one she does it for, she leaves tomorrow after time-passing, calling him a criminal, a vagabond, and a miscreant in front of everyone to find a new victim.
And the character of the girl would be engrossed in her own life, making it a question mark for everyone. And the girl has nothing left!
My dear sisters, come out of this deception and dreams. An unmarried man can never be a friend, nor a brother, nor a protector, nor love..!
Marriage is the goal of love, not adultery.
The husband is the main protector of the woman. True love for a woman can only be done by her husband, not a non-mahram...!!!
Allah forbade us to talk to the non-mahram in a soft tone so as not to cause harm. Because this disorder causes a lot of damage.
It is said in the Qur'an:
"يَا نِسَآءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَاَحَدٍ مِّنَ النِّسَآءِ ۚ اِنِ اتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّـذِىْ فِىْ قَلْبِهٖ مَرَضٌ وَّّقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوْفًا۔" (سورۃ الاحزاب۔ 32)
Translation:
Oh Prophet's baby! If you practice piety, you are not like ordinary women, so do not engage in lustful conversation. Let no sick hearted person fall into greed about you and speak plainly.
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So, my dear sisters, do not seek love in forbidden relationships, it can be pleasure, not peace, not honor, the most important thing is not the pleasure of Allah, there will be resentment and anger, and humiliation, so keep your feelings for your Muharram. Save it, in which there is no fear of humiliation, no disgrace, no anger of Allah and no displeasure.
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