HELLO EVERYONE,
Today I thought I would talk to you about a reality. All the time, various imaginary things are talked about and written about. They are actually like that. That is, imagination is very beautiful as imagination. Imagination does not have much in common with reality. But I thought I would discuss a real thing with you today. The real thing that I have seen many times but has not happened in my life yet. Because I never mix imagination with reality. I try to see reality strictly as reality.
However, we all have small members in our families. That is, more or less, maybe a few families do not have any small members. But in most families, you will see some or the other small member. Whom we love more than our own lives. Because that small member keeps the whole family busy all the time. And we love them so much that if they ask us for something. We can never forbid them and we do not want to forbid them.
There is definitely a bad or negative side to this. That is, it is good to have fun. It is very good to have fun with children, to give them a little indulgence. But if the level of indulgence increases day after day, then it becomes a terrible thing. Because one side of pleasure is very beautiful, that is, one side of pleasure is full of very beautiful love. But the other side of excessive pleasure is very dangerous. That is, the way you raise a child, he will grow up that way. Just like that, if you keep pampering a child all the time.
Then he will not think twice about asking for injustice. And when you make his habit like that. That is, when you make your habit in such a way that you give him whatever your child wants, then he will actually grow up as a stubborn or rude person. Which is not desirable for any of us.
So just as we love the smallest member of the house. In the same way, we have to raise them with love, affection, discipline, everything. So that they do not get spoiled by pleasure.
