The Love Hate Relationship in Life

in #hive-1413597 months ago

What is that one thing in life that made you unconsciously rethink about life somedays?

Life could be a little bitter sweet sometimes but every brand new day is another chance that you get to make a change in your life.

Being a thinker all the time is one of the most precious gift to be born with but somedays it really just feels like a curse and it does somehow gets annoying.

That is where that love and hate relationship with ones ownself starts.
It's like the inner voice in their mind and heart are arguing with each other each day.

I do know that to have the ability to be more loving to yourself and also having to built your self confidents and self esteem is something very hard to do in this world except you are lucky enough to be born naturally with all of it.

I know what it feels like to be a shy person and being bullied while you're voiceless because you can't find the confidents to voice it out and to avoid it from being repeated.

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Sometimes bad things and bad relationship has to happen in life to teach us something in life.

As time passes ,looking back somedays from time to time, I am really glad that those things happens in the past because that is what made me who I am today and also for the relationship with my ownself gets better too.

Learning to appreciate and love this heavy thinker brain that I have.
Learning to make better choices in life.
Learning to see the good pass through those bad days.
Learning to be more positive over negativity in life.
Learning to overcome, let go and forgive and never turning back to take that path again.

All thanks to the lessons, bad heartbreaks, bad friends and bad mistakes that had pushed me to improved more each day.
Also I've gained so many blessings too.
Finally having the right group of people that made life feels so much better and peaceful rather than having all the dramas and headache unnecessarily.

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Having a small circle of friends is always better than having a large group of friends.
It's because quality over quantity is so much greater.

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Thinking of your question, I'm actually a person who live in the past for the most part of my life. The only future I have is THE WIFE. Now I know why people say marry the women who you can live with, not the women you can't live without. Basically, I will have to prepare myself all the time to have my ass kicked if she ask what's for dinner tonight. If I said don't know, I will be in trouble. If I suggest to go somewhere we went last week, I will be in trouble. If I give good suggestion and she ask for second choice, I will have to give an alternative selection. If I don't comply, I will be in trouble. If I become frustrated and ask her to pick a place to eat, I will be in trouble 🤣

Now that I look back, yeah all those bittersweet moments actually made up who I am, and I like to look back my life very much.

I did thought of whether will I want to relive a particular moment, what if I do this, what if I did that? The answer is no, let the pass live in the past. I don't mind to revisit the scene many times, but that is all I am willing to commit.

I know right.Same here.Used to be that person who keep reliving the past but not anymore cse time has changed me alot.Kicking my own ass everytime to get back in touch with the present and the future.
That's a lucky wife you have there!🤭
Actually you're both very lucky to have found each other.
Hahaha 😝It's not a bad thing though,your wife gave you something to think about and also you will always be well prepared whenever she starts asking what's for dinner.😂
Yes very true indeed.The past are the days we might revisit every once in awhile but it will let us see how far have we come to and how much we have improved in life.

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