Hello wonderful community of @asean.hive it's been a while and the reason you wouldn't believe. I know you're familiar with my son JJ that lives on my in-laws House since he was little. At first my sister in-law just borrowed him in the morning and before sunset I'll go get my son of course. But my husband got sick so we needed someone to take care of our other expenses such his milk, diaper and others. That was the start, my son stay there for a bit longer. Jj was my third child so what I did is to focus on my his other siblings specially to my husband. His eight years old now and the set up he lives there but he can go home wherever he wants. But it's limited their grandparents often called to check on JJ like I was a irresponsible mother. But I endure all what I felt for my family.
My husband also said that his parents needed someone to be with them too. But Mariel their first grandchild was with them. But what we saw and hear is actually the opposite of what she needed to be. She's lazy and not cooperating well, I don't want to be the bad guy here so I will not continue describing her. But you can observe it all through my blog. I actually write a blog post of her last year.
https://peakd.com/hive-141359/@usagigallardo015/my-daughters-cousin-and-her-motherhood-journey
JJ fourth day it's a miracle LoL 😅 no calls or text with their grandparents. Jj went home with some complicated reasons too. As his young age he knows how to make white lies, his covering his cousin even it make something bad to her like hurting. After I saw him I asked how did you get here? Because he knows how to paddle a boat he just entered our house. He said I was with my uncle Mot, Mariel's father but he didn't tell the reason why. Of course we're happy to see him. While we're eating his 14 year brother teases him jj cries then suddenly I got mad at the two because JJ over reacts. Then he said that Mariel hurted him, pinch him too. We stopped, but it was not the first time we heard it from him. We know jj is a bit stubborn too, naughty one but what if they gone worse and my in-laws couldn't manage to handle them. Every big flood we evacuated at my in-laws house, I saw how Mariel patience was with my son but it's not always that Im there to witnessed things. Only God knows.
So I wanted to make it different this time.
I told JJ what do you want!? Mariel hurts you worst or your brother that you are able to fight back even it's not right. Then I was here to fixed your mess. He suddenly stopped, I want you now to realize that are different now. On the Link Mariel now have a baby girl and we think my son is now the les favorite. So I think it's time to also get my son. He also repeated grade two! I don't if my in-laws are capable of disciplining their grandchildren with them. But my mother in-law told @katsuki29 that she feel hopeless because of the endless house chores, their house is big too, her husband that is Sick and the same time hot headed. Mariel's baby too, Mariel also continue her schooling. There's no one that will took care of Mariel's baby beside to my mother in law. We cant help them now because I can't say if she properly raise Mariel....
All I want is my son back
Thank you so much for reading
Much Love, @usagigallardo015
