We have different things that can motivate you to start working on yourself. Some people's source of motivation is poverty because they have so many people around them who are suffering and have also experienced poverty. Their source of motivation is purely to break out of the shell of poverty and become something not only for themselves alone but also for their families. Some people do not experience poverty, but they have another thing that is motivating them, and it might be marriage and the kind of partner they want to end up with.
I have met many people who say they don’t want to be like their father or even say they don’t want to be like their parents because they don’t have a steady home for them, They are out there carefully selecting the partner. The problem is not poverty the problem is to find a stable home and what they derive motivation from is not to end up like their parent. No matter what the motivation might be we must find a reason but finding a reason might not be good enough we must find a reason that is big enough.
Find a reason to start
The main reason why people are not successful in some fields is because they don’t pay much attention to it. When We start paying attention to things around us or things that we want to change we normally get results and this is because we give ourselves a reason to start but our reasons might not be enough to succeed in what we are trying to change. Most people who pray for a stable home still end up with someone bad, most people who cry for financial success still end up broke and this is because the reason is not big enough.
a reason can make you start something, but if the reason is not big enough, it might not keep you there. This is why in the middle of things we are trying to change when a problem. Of course we let it the finals and most times little problem can change the cause of our journey. Most people stop doing what they love or what they have allowed to change just because the encounter little problems, and these as a result of not having a big reason. It is normal to think twice and want to stop but if you have a reason that is big enough, we are likely to continue no matter what life throw at us.
Your reason can be small, but it is big enough when you experience the pain
Most people run away from the pain that they have experienced before because they know exactly how it feels. When you see people who determine that they want to fight poverty the reason might seem small, but to someone who has not experienced poverty before, it is big enough for someone that have experienced poverty because they know every pain behind it and this is why hard times create strong men because they know exactly how it feels to be weak.
It is easy for you to create a reason that is big enough when you have experience with your motivation. Most people who stick to their motivation are people who have experience towards what is motivating them. This is not the only reason and a way to create a reason that is big enough, but experience is the number one reason why people stick to the end with their motivation just because they don’t want to experience the same pain again.
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