The Strange Quests to Discredit Other People's Narratives...

in #hive-15032910 months ago

Maybe I'm being overly sensitive about this, but sometimes I can't help but feel that there are people in the world whose entire lives revolve around discrediting other people's narrative.

They are not exactly the "Karens" of the world, but something similarly unfathomable!

It seems like they don't do anything significant to further their own narrative — in fact, sometimes it seems like they don't have a narrative at all — all they really are focused on is tearing other people's stuff apart.

And, to the degree that they do have their own narrative, it seems like that narrative is so challenged by somebody else having a different opinion that said "different opinion" must be silenced immediately, and at all costs.

It's an approach to life I really don't appreciate, because it's so combative and destructive.

Sometimes such an approach to life appears to be tied to a sense of revenge, but not always. At least I can somewhat understand where people are coming from if they want revenge, even though it remains a very destructive emotion that seldom leads to anything positive, in the long run.

I guess I am somewhat against this whole thing because my experience has invariably been that destruction begets more destruction. So if you're busy trying to tear down someone else — without offering anything positive of your own as a substitute — you're not really contributing anything to the world!

Politics

It's an attitude I particularly don't understand in the field of politics. I'm not kidding when I say that I have encountered politicians out there whose entire platform seems to revolve around hating their opponent's platform. And they openly will say — when questioned as to what their platform is — that their platform is to get their opponent to lose, or out of office.

Well what the hell does that have to do with running a town, running a company, running a state or anything else?

Religion

One of the more ridiculous situations I've encountered happened many years ago where there were two churches of the same denomination in a city and they were literally "having a war" with each other because each believed the other was a bunch of uncivilized heathens on account of the way they interpreted scripture.

So you have two groups of people who, on Sunday, were sitting around preaching Peace, Love and God, and yet spending the rest of their time bad-mouthing each other and telling people not to visit their fellow denominational church because they were "sinners from Hell?"

Sorry, but there's just something deeply and terribly wrong with that!

Almost sounds like an old comedy parody on debate: "If you don't have a point to make, just ATTACK your opponent!"

Crypto Madness!

Seems like we even see shades of it here in the Cryptosphere where is there are "maximalists" who support a particular blockchain project or token but who are determined to label anybody who supports a different project as an idiot, and that project as doomed. And they will even — perhaps in a subtle and passive sort of way — try to sabotage the other project.

What the hell is wrong with you???

If your perspective or believe won't stand up to scrutiny, perhaps you need to revisit why you even hold it, in the first place!

Maybe it's all just an aspect of human nature I simply don't understand. And I'm willing to concede that is a distinct possibility — after all, I'm a cat! Even so, what about the idea that you emphasize your own and highlight what is good about the things you're contributing in an attempt to make them stand out as better than other options? Making a life that revolves around belittling other options while not saying anything much about your own just strikes me as very little better than being a snake oil salesman!

Well, I really didn't set out to write a rant, but it seems like it's turned out that way.

Thanks for coming to visit, and do leave a comment if you feel so inclined!

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Well you are picking up the lovely topics. Nothing better to ruin a nice dinner than bringing up religion and politics. People are pushed to polarization, that is the narrative feeding this need to not listen and enforce the self-serving bias.

Oh and Crypto Maxi´s can be fitted under the religious category as well if you ask me.

Crypto Maxis are a lot like religious fanatics. They seem completely unwilling to even consider any perspectives other than their own single-minded approach.

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Well said..... even for a cat. 😄 Who knew humans and cats could think so much alike.

I am SO with you on this issue.

Totally agree. What happened to talking and debating with each other?? If I stopped talking to my friends who had a different viewpoint, I'd have no friends left! People are too busy attacking each other instead of talking and coming to a resolution.

Fact. And sadly, many people accept that, choosing to immerse themselves in little echo chambers, while abandoning their long-time friends.

It worries me, for the world.

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These days people here have become hot headed and impulsively out of control! Lots of incidents about arguments which turned into fighting and gunshots!
Better to stay away from crazy, extreme and negative people!!

Stay safe!

Just feel like people are almost dangerously attached to their ideas... and the tolerance for anything else is near zero. And yet... nobody actually has all the answers!

We keep mostly to ourselves!

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On politics. Yes, I see this too in my country. The conservative party, currently in opposition (parliamentary system) seem only to be able to talk about what they don't like about the other side. It's seems like they're literally incapable of putting forward a policy platform of their own. From my point of view I have to agree: what the hell does any of this have to do with running a country?

On religion. Hypocrisy! Plenty of that in the realms of organised religion in my view, unfortunately. It's pretty laughable because the original message of most religions is at least partly a variation on treat others nicely. How quickly that is forgotten! But oh no, all is forgiven because I go sit in a building on a day we call 'Sunday.' and say and hear words... 😄

I mean no spite to those that are religious, either. I think that's great. Every individual has every right to worship in their own way. It's just a bit onerous when people are flagrantly hypocritical to the teachings of their own professed religion, hey?

As for the crypto side of things I haven't seen it, personally. I'm sure there's people out there who just seem to exist for the sake of negativity and tearing things down but thankfully I've been spared. Maybe if I were to start a project of my own the haters would appear, but for now that's not something I'm looking to do. I figure if you're doing something and your intentions are good, the appearance of haters should be taken as a good sign. People wouldn't bother if they didn't see value there. Who knows?

I really enjoyed your rant. Have an essay-length comment in return! 😄

(sorry) 😅

Yes, yes and yes.

The crypto geeks in particular can become quite ridiculous when you have people who are "all about Bitcoin" actually sitting there and calling all other crypto projects "scams." WTF, mate?

I mostly keep to myself, but it doesn't mean that I don't get exasperated when I find myself in the middle of their munted shitshows!

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Ah oh yes, the pointlessly militant bitcoin maximalist set...

It's like a lot of things (religion, too), if they were truly confident about the strength or truth of their chosen whatever, they wouldn't waste time tearing down the other. Says more about the individual doing it than anything else.

Don't let them get to you! (Easier said than done, I know)

Always have to laugh at the skilful deployment of the word munted.

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