Once in a lifetime any person will feel that he or she might need to live alone. There will be some consequences that will drove them to feel it like that way. It can be in reverse mode too. One can feel that there is a high chance for him or her to explore the world with others. There will be some issues that will force that person to live a beautiful life not alone but with everyone. These feelings are common human nature but not for them who are totally introvert or extrovert. Living on a specific version of life, will never make you understand how the other side feels. Ok, I'm not turning my head towards that issue. Rather I am thinking to talk about such persons who are both introvert and extrovert. I am talking about myself too.
Well, hello dears. It is always an honour and privilege to be with you guys. It was not an easy way to stay away from the community but now I'm back with more interesting stories. Mostly about the world but sometimes I will prefer to speak about my own stories too. Based on it, I'm going to talk about people who are extrovert and introvert both. They possess the life of being single or being in group. It is their state of mind which one they choose.
Being Extrovert: A life which is worthy to make a relation with the outer world. Lots of friends, enjoyable moments, brighter days and beautiful nights. All are fulfilled with people and sounds. One will not feel alone while having an extrovert life. If you are an extrovert, you will love social settings and how it connects you with others. You will not like to be alone and gatherings will increase your appetite to be with the chaos of life. You will thrive around people and their activities. Your friend list will have too many names to get involved. The best option is you are open to talk about your problems and questions with others. That's the best option of being an extrovert because there is nothing to hide.
Being Introvert: Completely different from the extrovert life. You have lots of people around but you prefer less people and no sound to disturb you. The world is too small for them but worthy to get connected with their own thoughts, feelings and moods. They prefer to remain silent rather than enjoying the world full of joy and sounds. When you are an introvert, you will feel your energies draining when you are surrounded with too many people. You may have less friends to discuss with or gossip. You are self aware and prefer to speak with no one about your problems. The problem is people think that you are messed person and it is difficult to get to know about you.
When you prefer both: It will sound crazy but sometimes one can have the both feelings. For example, I am dealing with such issues. Most of the time I prefer to be alone and keep myself away from people and their life. I remain in a corner and feature my own world to create my own aura. But sometimes I really feel that I need people to talk with. I feel like I need to embrace the colours of life and the sounds of joy. My silence suddenly wants to scream. My loneliness out of nowhere wants to be with more people. Those hidden questions which I keep asking myself, require people to answer. That's how my introvert life turns the table to be an extrovert.
I am pretty much sure that I am not the only guy having these kinds of feelings. Am I? Too many people with too many personalities and all of them are having their own issues. We can divide them in two parts, naming introvert and extrovert. But I must add one more portion of it. The portion which has the people having both personalities. They can switch the gear from introvert to extrovert or from extrovert to introvert. I am on that part which considers me from being introvert to extrovert. I feel that it is better to be like that. It completely depends on that person's mood to change it according to his/her want or desire.
Being extrovert and introvert at the same time is a blessing in disguise. It is completely my opinion. Do your stories continue like my one? Feel free to answer.
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