How Are You Doing These Days?

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I was thinking today how much stress are we under at present and for the future and maybe how out of balance we may be, wherever the balance is for each of us. We are adaptable creatures, but never in our existence as a species, at least since civilization started (as far as I can think of right now without researching) have we been subjected to so many challenges in so rapid succession, even though we had many challenges in the past. But the difference is the speed at which we have been facing breaking changes.

A couple of years ago, we went through the Covid + lockdown experiments, followed shortly after by wars and threats of war, war spending, refugees, sanctions, much higher prices globally, woke-ism and now the reverse, anti-woke-ism.

In politics, radicalism is the norm on either side of the spectrum and any decent person gets tired of this show quickly.

Corporations don't give a damn about customers more than numbers on their balance sheets. They may care to make them addicted, since that's what makes them long term milk cows. Just take a few examples for edification: pharma industry, banks, hypermarkets, social media (if it doesn't take your money, it takes your time and sells your data).

AI is disrupting much of what it touches, jobs are lost, and so far empty promises of new jobs are made. But we will see. People struggle to keep up with AI or shield themselves as much from it as possible, risking to either be left behind or to live in a parallel society, if enough of them are in this second group.

Crypto has a "known cycle", but from theory to practice there's a distance, and living crypto events every day can be stressful, even when it isn't supposed to be, when everyone should feel "like geniuses", in the bull market.

If on top of that you also have some personal issues, or you've been affected more than the average person by losing your job, losing your money in crypto bets, or whatever, things are probably increasingly difficult to cope with.

Yes, we can (try to) shield ourselves from some of the negativity, for example by not paying attention to media, politics, or other stuff we can't influence. But the rising prices, for example, affect you even if you don't pay attention to all the sh*t going on in the world.


The AI did a good job on this one.

Unless you are self-sufficient (and most aren't), so does food and drink, especially the processed ones, with all the additives, colorants, flavor enhancers, sweeteners, preservatives, empty calories, etc.

I'm spending an unacceptable amount of time paying attention to how not to get killed quickly or slowly by the food producers, when this shouldn't have been my concern. Trump says the EU should take the US crops. Nope, I strongly disagree with this one. Trump should eat them all with all the harmful pesticides still used there. Not that our country hasn't been flooded by products from other countries with uncontrolled levels of pesticides. But at least you can avoid them, if you know their origin.

I need a vacation, lol. I may take one this year, hopefully. Maybe an alt season could help. And Trump and other high-profile individuals staying out of the meme coins market, to stop extracting liquidity from more serious projects. This may be an illusion on my part.

How do you cope with everything we have to deal with recently? Does it feel overwhelming? If it does, perhaps that's the point. A "great reset" may sound like a very good thing (bullsh*t!) when you come after such an intense, emotional and money-draining period.

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Yes, it feels like living in a perpetual state of overwhelm. Even people with more financial security are feeling it:

"Why don't you just HIRE someone to take care of those things for you?"

Maybe they can, but it would mean upping an already overcharged 60 hour work week to a 70 hour work week, to pay for that help... so you end up taking on more stress on order to "buy" less stress... it's a zero sum game.

Yes, an alt coin rally would be nice. Heck, even just a Hive rally to $2 or something would help...

I was thinking either food producers would be more responsible (some may be if they lose customers or find customers for better quality foods), or they need to be properly checked.

Maybe it makes sense to hire someone to take care of certain activities for you, if you can use your time more productively.

Yes, an alt coin rally would be nice. Heck, even just a Hive rally to $2 or something would help...

Yep, I think we would see quite a lot of excitement and activity when Hive goes above 1$.

Living in the toughest times helps with coping with the current shit... lol... Most of the news, and politics are BS... You can find news from 4-5 years and see how many of them were pure garbage... I want to believe that I live in that second group, in a parallel society, as this one, that others call "real" is time-wasting... 😃

Of course, it's impossible to ignore everything completely, but I found it easier than before... When my kid was small, I was thinking about him and how to make his life easier... that was my main worry... today, he is a grownup, and my "job" is kind of finished... 🙂 I don't have to worry to keep him out of the "poisonous society", so I can focus on keeping myself out of that circle... 😃

Living in the toughest times helps with coping with the current shit... lol...

Yes, they should build us stronger. Giving how soft people have gotten recently, maybe it's for the better.

Most of the news, and politics are BS... You can find news from 4-5 years and see how many of them were pure garbage...

Agreed. Most of it is a smoke curtain, behind which a real agenda takes place.

I want to believe that I live in that second group, in a parallel society, as this one, that others call "real" is time-wasting... 😃

To some degree we are, maybe some more than the others, but at some point at least I pay attention to what's going on in the other side of the society.

When my kid was small, I was thinking about him and how to make his life easier... that was my main worry... today, he is a grownup, and my "job" is kind of finished... 🙂 I don't have to worry to keep him out of the "poisonous society", so I can focus on keeping myself out of that circle... 😃

Hmm, I didn't have the pleasure, the responsibility or the worries of having a child in these times. Sometimes I regret it, but most of the times I don't when I see how things evolve.

Sometimes I regret it, but most of the times I don't when I see how things evolve.

Yeah, it's not a nice world that we are leaving for our children... 😞

When my kid was small, I was thinking about him and how to make his life easier... that was my main worry... today, he is a grownup, and my "job" is kind of finished

Good for you, my friend. I am still not done with my "job." I think 3 to 5 years more.

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Hehehe... Does that mean that your child is a teenager? 😃
The best days ever... For them... 😂

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It depends. I think there are only so many things you can control so focus on that. The other stuff doesn't matter as much. We can't avoid the price increases, but we can still pick what we think is best. I found life alot easier after I just focused on what I could control.

I found life alot easier after I just focused on what I could control.

It definitely is. I checked out a bit what Trump has been doing this week after the inauguration, and now I feel it has been mostly a wasted time and a drain of mental energy.

It reminds me of my experience in South Korea. Some of my Korean colleagues told me that their lives are getting more difficult each day as we serve a local church. And then they asked, "How about you?" I just smiled. 😂

When you came from hell, the hell of many is heaven to me.

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When you came from hell, the hell of many is heaven to me.

Good point! There is a high degree of subjectivity in what we perceive of hard times or stressful events. For someone in the middle of a real war, our modern time "issues" would be something they'd be so happy to live to see again.

Yeah, you're right. In times of peace, we take for granted the many privileges we enjoy, and we tend to be overwhelmed by the small issues that we have. It reminds me of TCMD's video I listened to yesterday. Paraphrasing what he said, "When a T-rex is after your life, do you have time to worry about your stomach ache or your depression?" 😂

When a T-rex is after your life, do you have time to worry about your stomach ache or your depression?

Luckily, humans didn't have to face any T-Rex. If we would have, it's likely we wouldn't be around. 😉

😅 Yeah, you're right.

I forgot why he used that as an analogy. He was discussing the urgency for the technical solution and the excesses of government overreach.

I think the indirect effects is what gets many of us. You can try doing your best based on the information you've got but there will always be greater forces at play that also influence the path you take. I personally try as much as possible to take things one moment at a time while also zooming out as much as possible, so that I don't get lost in the noise.

With the bombardment of information we are under nowadays, noise is very loud most of the time. Taking a step back helps, especially when you feel overwhelmed, but also as a way to check if you go in the right direction or not.

Some times back I started cooking with real tomatoes and not the ones with the preservatives in the shop. Most of these businesses don't care about people, they just want to make profit and that's it.

I have a chronic condition and it made it difficult for me to work since I stopped seven years ago. It's been one complications to another, so yeah, life has been testing

Crypto on the other hand isn't easy, sometimes you mental health is messed up with everything

Some times back I started cooking with real tomatoes and not the ones with the preservatives in the shop. Most of these businesses don't care about people, they just want to make profit and that's it.

Yep, tomatoes are a big problem over here too, if you aren't careful.

I have a chronic condition and it made it difficult for me to work since I stopped seven years ago. It's been one complications to another, so yeah, life has been testing

I know. I have my own chronic condition, but it's probably more under control or rather easier to keep under control.

Crypto on the other hand isn't easy, sometimes you mental health is messed up with everything

The fact crypto isn't easy may be an advantage, but if we don't take a step back sometimes, it can drain our energy.

I know. I have my own chronic condition, but it's probably more under control or rather easier to keep under control.

Unfortunately I can't say the same. I have hope that someday there will be a cure, hopefully

Let's hope so.

Try to lead your best life and do something that makes you happy every day. I'm very optimistic for the future, longer term. Short term is what we're worrying about.

I like this attitude. Thanks for the advice and perspective! We need to focus on the long term.