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Most of the problem we are facing today are caused by ourselves. Because of a little pleasant, we drawn an everlasting wahala to our life.
Even if you want to create wahala, it shouldn't be of relationship. Imagine, you getting a good wife, married her elaborately and after a few years, you go for another woman who has same thing your wife had.
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This is what most men did to their family that makes every thing scatter, either you like it or not, grudges, fight will start between the wives and even the children because the mother of each child will always try to defend their fruit(s) in that house especially when things got spoiled and no one want to confess, so each mother will start to teach and defend in wrong ways.
If I'm not saying this out of experience, we can quickly find one around us, it has caused fight between children in the family till the death of parents and also continue after their death.
So what's the essence of getting two wives without applying wisdom among them and the children?
To get two or more wives is not a taboo but we shouldn't try what will cause our family alot of wahala after death.
We see cases today, where one or two get rich in the family but because they are of different mother they will not help others in the family and automatically, it will extend to generation to come.
Before you marry make sure you really love your upcoming wife don't have Lust, be careful don't cause what will scatter the generation to come. Though, it runs in some people blood, even if they get married and love the most beautiful lady in the world, what will be will be but at least, if you love her, you will always be scare to hurt her.