At times when cheating on women is on rise, and the cases of heart break are increasing, it is important we should remain alert and avoid mens to fool us on regular basis. Still at most of the time , it gets pretty difficult to judge, if the person still likes us or not. Or they just need to fulfill their urge for physical relation. Many times a person advances towards women for a casual relation. Unknowingly aware of their real intention a girl fall into their trap, and ultimately leads to broken hearts. In case they know their intention early on can save us a lot of time, energy, and emotions.
Recently, I went to a seminar on women safety and this question was put up by one of the audiences. Interestingly, this is quite a common scenario we often see around us, but still a person easily fools a women, with their charm and personality. Here are few of the suggestion / ideas that may help a women to stay safe from unwanted bad advances that were discussed in the seminar :
If the person text / messages or topics of discussion revolves around only sexual phrases, better to avoid them.
If the person try to keep the relation on his own terms - Like avoiding meeting in middle of the day or when they finds it affordable is a point of alarm.
If the person try to get more physically close - like always find a reason to touch or kiss. They like to create a sexual advances all the time.
The person turns away and shows cold shoulder, once you say "No" to their advances. It will show the real fave of the person.
Knowing and judging of a person is important to carry on the relation. I once read in a book - "relation is not only limited to getting physical, but it is much more in terms of feeling and emotions." It is still quite complicated to know about a person, but we can remain alert and vigilant to avoid getting hurt all the time. It was a productive session and we gained a lot from the discussion.
