life comes with its inexplicable ups and downs, everyday that passes we are not sure what life will throw at us, often times its only in retrospect do we see that our choices where good, bad or just unpleasant but as at the times we made them we probably thought it was the best possible route to take.
we all start off with big dreams and aspirations then reality sets in, age creeps up on you and so does responsibilities, over time we start to play it safe and our dreams become 'what if'.
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having conversations with elderly people asking them what their biggest regrets where and most of them would say never taking that chance, or never taking risks. they feel there lives could have meant more if only they had pushed harder and not played it safe, because what they where so scared of never really came.
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truth be told you never can figure everything out, all you can do is plan as best as you possibly can and take that shot , take the leap and pray you have a safe landing, figure things as you go along.
life is meant to be lived and experiences are best gotten first hand not told to you.
it is OK to be scared , it is alright to have doughts but never let those fears and dought deny you of a life filled with love, laughter and adventures.
it's ok to make mistakes but more importantly learn from them and don't punish yourself for making them.
heroes aren't so different from everyone else, the only difference is that they stepped up when everyone else backed down, they chose to fight for what they believed in not knowing the outcome of their actions, they don't intentionally say I want to do something heroic today, just that they took action when everyone else decided to let go.
learn to be brave, learn to be strong even when you are weakest and learnt to have a little faith in yourself and you never really can tell, everything may just turn just fine.
this is my two cents for the day, live your best life, and don't be scared, always put your best foot forward and never let go of that dream, you can do it only if you believe and take the shot.
I hope we all have a pleasant day