Our burden is made lighter if, instead of privileging it with 'Why me?', we add it to the common load.
It is wise to know oneself, if only to add to the sum of human knowledge.
The advice given Orpheus — never to look back until he had reached the upper world — should be good enough for us.
If we care for ourselves, we may turn our pain into gifts for others.
If we do not care for our souls, we become a burden for others.
Caring for our soul is the first step in caring for the world soul.
We exercise our free will by following our Destiny.