Hello friends coffee lover I join this initiative in this community #coffeeconversation of @cinccf where he asks us for this second edition of the 5-part series u very interesting topic that deals with the pros and cons of meeting someone or dating in a coffee environment.
Coffee is the ideal point between two people, this drink that keeps us together from generation to generation has been the ideal to attract two people. When we talk about a date we quickly place ourselves in a super quiet place where people share ideas, but when it is done in the company of a good coffee things change radically because it makes you feel your maximum level of energy and therefore the conversation flows a little more sharing a good cup of coffee is synonymous of brotherhood and a good friendship.
For years it has been said that coffee is a perfect stimulant for our brain, that when drunk it gives us a very relevant energy, but at other times it makes us feel much calmer, that is why people who consume coffee most of the time feel good. There is a small part of the world that suffers from anxiety and coffee is their only solution.
Drinking coffee on a first date is always synonymous of commitment but this can have its pros and cons which can be formally detailed before you.
Personally I consider that among the pros would be that in a coffee environment the conversation would be a little more enjoyable in a short time to get to know another person and you would take advantage of the time to enjoy it and talk about different things; also for a first date it would be better to go to a coffee shop because simply and simply if things do not work out between any of the two you can leave quickly and without being involved in a dinner that have to be many hours where you have to be seeing each other without liking each other and thus would save money and time.
Another of the pros would be that if people do not have enough money for that first date, the ideal would be to go to a coffee shop since having 2 coffees would be a little cheaper than ordering dinner or going out to another place, other things that would enter as pros is the dress of the people since in a cafe in the afternoon would be more relaxed than formal so to speak, the clothing becomes a little more comfortable, while a dinner that is in the evening we should go a little more appropriate for the occasion, that is to say that depending on the place where we are our clothes change and therefore the outing is formal or more casual. , But if we talk about pros in the clothing it would be more feasible to find something comfortable for the occasion, sincerely it would be calmer and more pleasant the moment, since with so many luxuries perhaps the idea is not transmitted as it should be and the communication becomes tedious. This will also vary depending on the person, because many people like to dress elegantly to go out quietly in broad daylight.
Among the cons I mention the short time it takes to drink coffee and people sometimes do not have time to talk; also that when we want to talk a little more intimately should be a quieter and more distant place, but if we want something quite daring we can do it in crowded places, although for the first time is always well seen an elegant place and where we can find a good coffee, another disadvantage would be that the date was in the afternoon, as many people do not like to drink coffee at night.
To conclude we realize that coffee is a perfect invitation when we want to meet someone for the first time although it has its pros and cons.
A good cup of coffee helps us to overcome pain and helps us to strengthen our brain, that is why love begins with the heart and coffee is linked to it.
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