Back again with me @muthmainnah in the same place and in a different edition. Hopefully wherever we are, we are always in blessings and goodness.

Being the breadwinner of the family is not an inheritance, but it is a choice. When the heart is determined to marry a woman, then at that time we have made a conscious choice to become the backbone for women who are ready for us to be wives and mothers for our children.

The matter of being the backbone of the family is not an easy thing because like it or not we have to find any kind of work whose wages can meet their needs. If not, then we will be held accountable in the hereafter.

And at that moment, they had to make a decision to do spa work which was only halal which was important to support the people who were in their care.

The results of the halal effort will have an effect on the brain development of the people we love. Because actually all food or drink that is chewed by someone will be exported to the crown. That's where the first effect of the food and drink consumed is. If the food is halal then the crown will give a signal to our limbs to step up and do all the good. But if it's the other way around, then the crown also always directs our limbs to do heinous and evil deeds.

Therefore, do not blame our children or wives if they are difficult to manage or are reluctant to be told a good thing. His heart has been covered with forbidden goods given by those who have the right to support him.

A little and a lot is not a benchmark when we seek sustenance, but thinking about halal and haram is more important. Moreover, all the sustenance has been measured and will never be exchanged. Invite our sustenance with full hope to Allah because He is the almighty above all.

We need to remember really, that sustenance is not expected but picked up with all the power we have. A little lawful sustenance is better than a lot of unlawful sustenance. Stay away from the nature of wanting to get rich quick with trends and methods that are detrimental to us. Impossible, newborn children can walk straight and speak fluently. All of that must have step and step. And it is not impossible if the woodcutter can perform Hajj and sacrifice for himself and his family. Because persistence and prayer can overcome everything. The effort never betrays the results, but sometimes Allah wants to try how far our awareness level is. Because if we are able to be patient, ALLAH has the power to give us more than what we ask for.

Whatever your profession, don't forget to involve Allah in everything. Even though your income is less than other people's, Allah's blessings are greater than those who earn more than you. Don't cry about your profession, because there is no better profession than being a faithful and pious servant of Allah.

That's a little sharing from me, hopefully it can be useful for all of us.

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