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When a person enters married life, he gets many responsibilities. Even more responsibilities come when he becomes a parent. From the time a child is born till the time he makes his career, the parents always have responsibilities. This is something that every parent has to bear. Special care has to be taken of children when they are young. When a child is born, he remains in front of the parents' eyes for about 3 years, but when he starts going to school, that is the age when children enter another environment and there they meet many types of people. Sometimes they meet good people and sometimes bad people. By staying in the company of wrong people, they have committed some mistakes there and it is common here that children commit mistakes because the answers go away from the parents' eyes, so in other environments, many times they do not find anyone who can stop them from right and wrong. It is a common thing for children to commit mistakes and this thing is often seen quite often. There are many parents who scold their children a lot for this mistake and sometimes they also get a big punishment. I do not consider this thing right because many times it happens that children get scared of punishment. If my children make a mistake, then I will first scold them a little and then after that I will explain to those children with great love what is right and what is wrong in this and if this mistake keeps happening again and again, then what will be the bad consequences of this thing in the future. I will give them many examples so that they understand this thing better that what is right and what is wrong. If you explain to children with so much love, then they will not make mistakes again. Every parent should talk to the children daily and should also take out some time for them. In daily life, children face many types of new things and they do not understand what is right and what is wrong because they are young and they do not understand those things.
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I have seen an example of this. Many years ago, there used to be a family in our neighbourhood. It consisted of three children and their parents. The children's father used to drink a lot and would mostly remain inebriated. His children would be between 9 and 15 years old. The two children were good but the eldest boy had become spoiled by bad company. Because of this bad company, he would often commit such mistakes that people would come to the house to complain about him. When people would come to the house to complain about him, then his father would punish him a lot. Even his mother could not say anything because no one could do anything in front of his father. This process of giving punishment continued and it would happen two-three times a week. Due to this physical punishment, he started becoming more spoiled and then he started associating with boys who used to do drugs and were spoiled. When that boy got educated and started going to college, he started associating with bad boys and he became so corrupt that it was very difficult to control him. Today that boy has gone to jail many times and his condition is very bad because he keeps consuming drugs all day long. I think that if his parents had talked to him on time and explained to him lovingly, then perhaps today that boy would have been living a good life, but today his condition is very bad.
Giving physical punishment is not a solution because it often makes children even worse. First of all, children should be explained with love and by doing this, children will understand, if the children still do not listen, then you can try some other solution, but physical punishment is not a solution because if he is not listening with love, he will never listen with physical punishment and he will become even more arrogant.
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