These days, being in a relationship is so common that even little teens of 13 now have partners and are into relationships even more than adults. It's very alarming because I wonder how the next generation will look like at this rate. This would have been more acceptable if they agree to stick to having just a partner but this is just the opposite sometimes. I know of someone who has four boyfriend's and she stored thier numbers serially like Babe 1, Babe 2, and so on with no specific reason to justify herself.
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Most guys would come with the reason that, there are just too many beautiful girls out there to lust over therefore, they're always be moved to want to have them. Most guys lack self control to the point that they would want to have their way with any girl that comes their way. But they are not aware of the dangers behind this kind of lifestyle. It has effects, mentally, physically, financially and in the future too.
The girls will come with the reason that one guy won't be able to supply or take good care of their needs and that's why they engage in multiple relationships. But as a lady, I prefer to work for my money as these needs are my needs and not fully depend on a man and loose your self respect.
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My thoughts on privacy in relationships
No matter the level of closeness and love you have with your partner, it's wrong to cross some certain boundaries in a relationship. We may not be told about these boundaries by our partners but we should know as they can lead to breaking up.
Reminds me of a movie where a working class lady fell in love with a pauper, she got him everything he needed and showed him love but he was unnecessarily being possesive. It got to a point where he texted and called her when she was at work, trips, meetings, conferences and other places where he shouldn't be calling. He always went through her phone asking about who this and this is to her. She tried on several occasions to make him understand that she loves and would never cheat on him but it all fell on deaf ears. He once followed her to a business trip without her consent and it almost caused her, her job. That was what led to him loosing a caring lady who loved and cared for him.
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You don't need to be obsessed or too clingy to your partner to prove that you love them. Curiosity can harm a healthy relationship, all you need is trust and love to move on.
I don't think it's necessary or right to go through your partners phone for messages and calls, it only shows that there's no trust in such relationship and a relationship without trust is good as done. This doesn't mean that when you start seeing some signs of your partner cheating on you, you just sit and do anything. It is at this point you have some rights to go through their phones inorder to clearify your curiosity. Signs like your partner always not wanting to pick some of his calls, reply some messages in your presence and keeping his phone on silence are reasons that you need to know what's going on.
Invading your partners privacy and monitoring them especially when he or she has proven to be decent to an extent only makes the relationship toxic which is not healthy for a good relationship.
