Living by Our Own Rules: Why Respecting Boundaries Matters

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We all have some rules and regulations in our life that we follow. We do not present these things to everyone but we follow them like some people are very religious, some people are atheists, and everyone has their nature and their desire, no one can force anyone to adopt or leave this thing but there are many people whose nature is of different types and you cannot force anything on anyone, think if someone forces something on you then how will you feel. Everyone has their own rules and they follow them because everyone has their own life and everyone has the right to live it in their way, some people try to dominate others, they want others to do the same as they want, if others do not follow them then they get annoyed, they become angry or they stop talking to people, there are people of many different natures, I am sure there will be people of different natures around you too.


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But as individuals, we all have some rules which we follow and there are some things which if someone else does not do that or violates them, then we get angry. We get very angry. Some people like cleanliness a lot. If someone around them makes a mess, then they get angry with them or give them some advice in every matter and some people have a habit of stopping. If you are doing any work, then they will first tell you that you are not doing the right thing (or not in the right way), then they will say something to you which will make you feel bad or they will think of showing themselves as big as possible, like they will say some such things even if you are doing the same thing or you know the things, still to keep their point, they will say something which will make you feel bad and you will not feel good. Well, I do not like such things that I rule over other people or trouble other people. I want to see the people around me happy and keep them happy. I try to do as little as possible that will make someone angry and cause them trouble.

I just hate one thing and that is lying. If you are asking for my help, if you are speaking the truth, then I will help you without thinking anything. If you lie and you come to me with some excuse or the other and expect me to help you, maybe I will help you for a moment, but if I come to know that you have asked for my help by lying to me, then maybe next time I will have to think about it and I hate liars a lot because a person who can lie once can lie again. So it becomes very difficult to trust such people and I try to avoid such people, but still in life we ​​meet people outside and you cannot recognize at first glance how that person is and for what purpose he is coming to you or approaching you. We get to know about a person gradually, yes, if someone tells you about that person beforehand, then maybe it is different, but then he becomes your enemy beforehand, then this also cannot be a good thing. If I am lying about someone else then do not believe it until you see it with your own eyes and hear it with your ears because people keep on saying something or the other and do not do anything for the good of the people, often everyone's mentality has become for today only and this is a very sad thing.


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Yes, I also meet many such people who lie and take the help of lies, some even lie a lot and in such a situation, it becomes difficult to believe them sometimes I even laugh at their words because sometimes they lie a lot and people easily believe such people at first, but gradually when they come to know their truth, they also break ties with them or start keeping distance from them, so I would suggest that if there are any lying people around you, then you should stay away from them because sometimes they go to any extent to fulfil their word and are ready to do anything for that, sometimes in such a situation, the people living around them are also in great danger and the end, their family members have to face trouble. I just think that we should stay away from liars and if there is someone in front of you, friend, you should also be cautious and you should not be choosy all the time because they are humans and they cannot be trusted. I have learnt a lot from my very close family member and I hope he doesn't do this again in the future, we can only hope and see what happens.


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Different things for different folks, lies makes you mean.
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I equally hate lies. It just feels to me like the liar is calling me a stupid person. Speaking the truth is usually the easier way out, yet I don't understand how some people don't see it so.

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I also hate the lair, and I think I never trust a person who tells a lie for help. I am very cruel and strict in that case, and I may not help him even in his emergencies. I am heartless and emotionless for such a person.
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