The Business of Behavior: Why Good Manners Matter

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We all meet many people in our lives, some people are too nice or too sweet and some people are too rough compared to other people, not everyone birth is like that. Circumstances change people and they become like the circumstances in which they live. We all must have seen around us that if a person has lived in such an environment since childhood where everything is very peaceful then he also becomes like that, on the contrary, if a person lives in such an environment where since childhood he has seen fights and other things are good then he also gradually becomes like that. We all meet many people in our lives and some people we remember and some people we forget, some people are good, and some people are bad, there are only two things about people because of which we can remember them.

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Although, these days, there is a great shortage of good people, but still it cannot be said that there is a complete shortage of such people. There are still many good people alive in this world and I think that everyone is trying from their side to bring some change in this world. See, we have to bring about some change ourself first and only then we can see the understanding. If you keep giving a lot of speeches and do nothing, then it is not going to have any effect on you. Nothing is going to happen until you set an example yourself. See, we all keep buying things for ourselves from somewhere or the other and in such a situation, we come in contact with many different types of people. If you have been buying goods from a shop for some time, then gradually that shopkeeper also recognizes you and some shopkeepers also notice what type of goods you buy and in what quantity. So sometimes it happens that without you telling him, the shopkeeper gives you the goods that you want to buy.

As I said there are different types of people, and everyone doesn't need to be of the same type, many people pay attention to many things, but some people do not care about all these things, they just have to do their business and some people are very grumpy and on the contrary, some people are very good and their behaviour is very good. You must have also seen that some shopkeepers treat their customers very well and some do not even talk to us well and discriminate between people, here also some such people are very good and talk to everyone with great love, see, this is what happens that people feel like coming to your place next time, if you do not talk to the customers well, shout at them and get angry, then maybe they will do less business at your place now but will not do it next time also.

Like this, encounters keep happening with many people but there are some people whom I like very much in my area. There is a special place where I used to go a lot earlier but I did not get that much time whenever we meet our friends, we just go there to eat something or the other. Since we were in school, we go there to eat fast food. Also, the owner of the shop is a very cheerful person and he also has a lot of fun and jokes. Earlier, when we were in school, when we used to come back after teaching tuition, our friends used to go there and spend our time and used to sit there and wait for fast food. We used to reach there so quickly that Nothing was prepared, we used to sit there and clink cups and enjoy themselves a lot. Some are honourable, this is because at their place the customers stay for a long time but it is not like that there, we can sit comfortably and enjoy the company of friends and enjoy our food.

Some people are very arrogant by nature, I would say grouchy. But if your nature is not good, then no matter how good your business is, it gradually stops working and perhaps you realize this after a long time. When I was in school and college, there were very few shops for passport-size photos, photocopies and other things and one shop was very popular and famous, so everyone used to go there but the behaviour of the owner was very bad, he did not respond properly to his customers and due to which his business also got affected a lot. See, earlier there were very few shops, so the competition was very low, but now the competition has increased a lot and there are many shops for everything, so in such a situation, people go to the person who behaves well and whose work is good and in such a situation, the person who does not behave well with the customer, his customers start decreasing automatically. See, if the environment of your office is good, then people also feel happy there. If there is a stressful environment, then people also behave a little awkwardly there. You get to experience this thing only after going to that environment.

There are different types of people in this world and this is also necessary, but I would like to tell you that if you ever do business in the future or you go anywhere, then talk to people politely and give them respect because respect is very important because see, we all expect that everyone should respect us and on the contrary, but we do not want to do so. So this is a simple thing. If you want to get respect from someone, then you should also respect others. Life is short, you should live it happily and not by troubling others. Thank you.

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Some people are very arrogant by nature, I would say grouchy.
It's not my job to cater to such people. I avoid them and their energy at all costs.

Truly chote bhai, we are just a product of our surroundings. Good manner never comes in a day. What we practise for long time, comes naturally in our behaviour. Behaving well is most important thing in a social life. It takes time for grouchy people but they learn.

Ye to sahe kaha apne, jesa aap kroge wesa he aap fal paoge.

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Its funny I read a similar post yesterday. But my argument is little different. I have nothing against politeness but imagine a world where everyone is polite. Its going to be nice but boring. No matter what people are always going to nice and boring. I am not saying all nice people are boring but they generally are. 😂😂😂

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Emotions and feelings time par express karni chahiye, agar gussa aaye to express karna, aur pyaar aaya to bhi express karna. ☮️❤️

This is a nice post! Kindness and respect really matter, and your stories show that well. Thanks for sharing!

Thanks brother 🙏.

You are welcome bro 😊

Customers are Kings and should be treated as such. When a customer is treated with respect and honour, he would have the rest of mind to trade.
I love to be respected as a customer and as such, I am tempted to keep going to where I received such honour for spending my money.

Your final conclusion is exactly the same as mine. Today, the consumer is treated merely as an "X" who must follow a script, completely disregarding their individuality, tastes, and preferences, and reducing the act of selling to forcing the person to say yes, no matter how annoying one has to be to achieve it.

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The logic is quite simple. Everyone wants to be treated well and if any trader/shopkeeper treat us well we naturally love to buy products for the trader. I think the behavior of trader has long term impact on business.
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Yahh i couldn't agree more, in some situations even if there are at fault i always apologize first, to avoid too much talk and unpleasantries.