Sometimes I wonder what men benefit from marriage apart from children... It is so sad to see many men lose their properties to someone they trusted and got married to because of a trivial issue... This makes me wonder again if that was their agenda from the beginning and only pretended to be in love to deceive the man.
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One good case is the one of Pep Guardiola, his wife divorced him because he is a workaholic, imagine divorcing your husband that you have been together for 30 years because you felt he was not giving you enough attention, he works too much... Like how does that make any sense... He is working so that his family would not lack anything and that family he is working so hard left him because of that and not just that, the court divided his properties into 2 and gave one part to the wife! the man must be so heartbroken...
Am I the only one who felt the decision to split properties after a divorce is terrible? someone will spend years to build wealth and someone he married for barely 2 to 3 years will divorce and take half of the wealth, it just doesn't make any sense and this is why many men out there are skeptical about doing Court weddings because the court doesn't favor the men
Pep Guardiola is one out of many cases, we have the likes of Thierry Henry, Ryan Giggs, and Emmanuel Eboue, all these people mentioned are footballers and you can easily dig into their stories online and what they went through after the divorce, how some even plan to commit suicide cos losing of properties to someone who didn't work with you to earn them can be so depressing, so why is this sick law still practiced.
It has been confirmed that some ladies intentionally marry rich people so they can divorce them after a few years and loot half of their properties.
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A prenup is a way that men can use to save themselves from the tragedy that comes with Divorce but then the other gender will not be happy with this decision, I can imagine the look on your partner's face when you tell her that is what you want, Most will not want that which further question their loyalty. If you do not have a bad mindset or want to plan something awful in the future, you should not have a problem signing the prenup... Let both parties take only what belongs to them after a divorce.
Instead of the prenup which causes fights between partners before they get married, I think the best solution is to avoid court marriage, sometimes I even wonder why men go for court marriage when there are other forms of marriage... We have traditional marriage and church marriage but it is funny how some people prefer court weddings because it is so cheap to do... Just you and your spouse and a few family members and friends and you are good to go but it will cost you more than a church wedding when divorce happens cos the court will interfere in your lives and will split your property!.
As for me, I do not like big weddings or anything that is crowded, I would prefer a pastor to join me and my spouse and if she is not satisfied with that, the only thing I can do is a traditional wedding which won't be too big... Just her family members and a few friends and mine and that is it....
I think the traditional wedding is the best, our forefathers are the testimony needed, their marriage lasted for a lifetime without divorce, they were together during both the good and bad, tough and easy days, unlike this era when there is any shake in fortune, the ladies start misbehaving or leave the marriage.
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