My bully experience: People who loves themselves, don't hurt other people

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I do not know why i hate bully with passion and people who bully others will never be in my good book because i see it as oppressing the weak, most people that bully are actually coward that could not fight with their peers but instead take pleasure in fighting who is weaker than them...

If i see my loved ones getting bullied right in front of me, i won't take it lightly with the bully because i detest that act so much and yea i have had my share of being a victim of bully too...

It happened in 2009 when i was in senior secondary school, ss1 to be precise, in every school, we have the gentle student, playful ones, talkatives and the back benchers, i fall in the playful ones category, we are three best friend and we play alot though we also know book alot, how ironic but it is the truth, when in classroom with the teachers we are very active in answering questions and when the teacher is gone, it depends on our mood, we may read or do what we love to do best, play lol...

On that fateful day, we were on break, so me and my buddies were running around as usual, disturbing the school premises with our playfulness and mistakenly while running, i match a guy who is in art department class feet and without him waiting for me to tell him sorry, he landed a hot slap on my face, it was so hot and painful that i didn't know when tears started rolling down my cheeks....

Damn this boy is my class mate yet i could not do anything to him because he is taller and biggr than me, my secondary school crush could not take it as she saw what happened and she confronted the guy on why he would slap me even after knowing we are in the same class but the guy didn't even apologise to me, i could not play that day again, i just sat down on my seat thinking about the hot slap lol...

Fast forward to five years later, we were done with secondary school and i was already working in a factory company producing cartons, i have also grown taller and my muscles are now hmm hmm hmmm, i was on my way home to greet my parent when i saw this particular guy on the road and then i remembered what he did to me years ago, the anger came and guess what? i am now as tall as him and also have more muscles than him, he looks the same as when we were in ss1 maybe just a little taller but he was still skinny as ever and i know i have higher chance of winning him in a battle if it did happen..

Ofcourse the motor won't wait for me to challenge my last fighters lol and that was how the story ended, i never saw him again and i have never been bullied again since then because i have what it takes to counter those bullies!

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I really hate bullies too. I even see some adult or work "managers" trying to do these same tactics with people. It is disgusting.

Good that you are now with some muscles :)

it happens on daily basis, some people have no conscience

We must release the hold that the bully has on us after we have passed through that point in life. The past pains do no good for future growth. I am glad to see that you are now able to counter any bullies.

yea it was a one time thing but there are still people out there who are still victim of being bullied.. I hope they can free themselves from it

I am glad you are better off than him and soon he will learn of your successes and Burl mansions.

lol thanks momma

Bullying is a bad experience.

yea i dont wish anyone that

I’m sorry for your experience. Hurting someone just because you can is evil and that feeling of helplessness is really hurtful.
I honestly thought you were going to even scores with the guy when you saw him 😂

lol i am not that mean nd moreover it is in the past, he has been forgiven

Okay then 😂

Thank God you didn't retaliate, that shows you are the bigger person

i wish i could but i was powerless and that would only result in more beating for me, so i was wise not to retaliate xd

Yes you were. And it's a good one

Schoolyard bullies often grow up to be spouse abusers or child abusers. They generally have no self-esteem
and they can only feel strong when picking on the weak.

It is never a good experience for the victims, thanks beststart

People who bully sometimes has the highest level of insecurity, so they need to bully to have a sense of control and security.

exactly, only the less deprived bully

!PIZZA for my friend!

I am sorry you had that experience. There is no excuse for bullying. Thanks for sharing.

Wow... while you grew to be bigger than your bully, it seemed the growth hormones must have skipped him. Bad for him.
I am glad it all ended on a positive note for you.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

actually my growth was slower, he already had his growth in the early days and it was my turn to grow lol

I am sorry that you were bullied - I was too. It is a terrible thing and some times hard to get over. I am happy to hear that you are fine and now stronger than your bully.

yea that is life, and no one tops forever, this is why we must be humble

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