Perfect days mean different things to differrnt people. To address this, I tried as best to think and be realistic. I know for certain how my days go, for the most part. And I tried to not let what wishes I have cloud that.
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For every week and month and year and even during my birthday, there's always an important pattern I hope the day takes. Consisting are, no shouts, no quarrels, no anger. Also, I like that my everyday regular day follows that pattern.
It's just, I have come to believe very much in the efficacy of the how I begin my day sets the tone for the rest of the day. Once I start a certain way, it somewhat rubs off throughout. Very much, I stay cautious.
Today, I forfeited going to school. I was to resume but I was yet unprepared. Worse, my glass frame broke on Saturday evening and there was no way that I could visit an optician until today, Monday. A couple other things had delayed me prior and had in mind to settle it all today.
So, I had to go to the optician and got the frame fixed, I visited the local market and got a few necessary wears, I did some personnal effect shopping too, some amendments, tended to some online stuff, even offline ones too. Just following my routine. And a lot of progress was made in seeing most of these plans of mine through.
A realistic perfect day for me is a day when I smash all my set goals and schedules. Okay, even if not all of them, but the most of them and especially the high-ups on the scale. It can also be a day when things do not go as planned, wherein something worthy, which isn't in the book of programme of events for that day happens.
Due to the quite numerous workloads I have to joggle daily, I work on a schedule. A tired routine. These little tasks all are in a way, linked to a bigger goal(s) so seeing them through means that I am staying on course.
The tasks aside, resting well, spending good time with family/,friends and experiencing mental peace makes for an amazing day.
And the joy I experience when at the end of the day, I go back to my planner and cross through the activities I was able to finish is extreme. Gives a sense of control.
Note still that I do not consider a perfect day to be one where nothing goes wrong . As if I do, a slight deviation from my expectation would instantly translate to meaning a ruined day which isn't as it should be viewed.
I believe a lot of days have been perfect for me in their own ways. There are no fixed criteria for a day to be perfect. It would be like every other day with a fine blend of productivity, creativity and some fun.
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