Hi Hivelearners friends.
This topic is interesting and nowadays we see that we are seeing such a problem in every home that children who are young when they start not obeying their parents and outside with relatives. What is the main reason for this?
We will discuss about it. What was wrong with us in this way and all those things are fixed in the mind of the children and then when they are young, the reality of all these relationships is known that these people were good with our parents first. So we see that the children are what they are and then they misbehave with them, so parents should also not say such things in front of the children that later they fight with their relatives.
There is not one reason why children are rude, there are many reasons that they see and do exactly the same way until they grow up. Children are learning all things there in their childhood and as soon as they are more than 15 years old and they don't understand but they know things and they start treating things in the same way.
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Now, the way parents stop them from doing something, they don't stop, that work is not good for them and they understand this only after the passage of time. They start abusing the father and say that it is our life and we live it the way we want, this thing is very wrong. Because in this world, parents also make the most sacrifices for their children.
First of all, parents have to conduct themselves in such a way that they do not have to discuss such things in front of their children, which later when they grow up, their hearts will be open to relatives and everyone else. They become bitter and then they keep complaining to them that at one time you all did wrong to our parents, especially we see what is inside the Asian countries,
These parts of the earth. Due to this, there are many problems and when these cousins are uncle's son and aunt's son, then there is a fight between the cousins because the property is not divided properly as in our case. It is mentioned in Islam that this is one of the reasons why relationships end and later fights with each other, but here it is so much fighting that they kill each other, so children.
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When the rudeness starts and especially the youth has no sense at all, the stories become so bad. Then after that, the fault of the children being rude is the fault of the villagers and also the people because we see that when someone is in depression and anyone comes to the house, they are very disrespectful to that person. And if he never succeeds in studies or something like that,
All the people, these relatives and all the other people who know us and come to our houses, make a lot of fun, and then the child is what it is. We keep it in our mind, we keep it in our heart that when the time comes, we will definitely answer all these people and then when the children start answering, the answers are given in a different way, they are given rudely because until a mature age,
This life goes on like this, so society also has a lot of role in making children rude and parents should also show the past of others in front of the children. Do not talk, otherwise the children will continue to misbehave with others in the same way and later it will be said that the parents did not train well. I am also 28 years old at this time and we have also seen such things in our life in our house and among relatives.
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Misbehave with and do not respect at all especially when relatives misbehave with parents and all these things become known to the children and then if a person does not succeed in studies by working hard day and night however, these relatives and all the outsiders give the child mental tension and torture, and then a time comes when the child thinks that all these people can't do anything to him and he becomes rude.
And we have seen a similar case in our life. There was a father who loved his child very much but he made a mistake. Didn't let him play and used to be very strict in eighth class and used to beat him and used to tell him that he is ego first and then after some time that child also became rude and he also dropped out of school.
Today he is living in the same way. That is why it is said that children should be given time to play in their childhood, otherwise children become so much worried about studies and when they start to be wise, they stop studying and that child is what he was. Can't even study 10th class only because of father's strictness.
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These are all the reasons why today's kids are becoming rude and they are made addicted to social media from childhood and then when they grow up and parents say study, use mobile. If you don't, children misbehave with their parents, so parents also have an important role in educating children well, so parents should also think that everything should be given to children in limits and more about physical activities.
It should be said that these are very important for their health and for their body, and when children become addicted to mobile phones and are looking at mobile phones day and night, the things they see in mobile phones are different in each country. It happens and every society has its own way of running,
But we are getting everything on social media, so children are becoming rude even by looking at other things, so parents themselves will have to consider that in this way. Mistakes should not be made in front of children and children should be kept away from social media in the beginning.
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