Hi Hivelearners friends.
Now the topic we are about to discuss is quite important and we have seen it happen in many places where children are not told for a long time that they are their own children, they have adopted it. So when people tell this to relatives or anyone after growing up, the child must feel some pain because we all love parents very much. There are two parts to this story, I will tell you one first.
And then I will tell you secondly, people who are here adopt children when they are not having children after some time of marriage and then after the passage of time, this child is given a lot of service and is given a lot of respect. She is loved a lot and when she has a child after 10 years, the respect for that child is reduced.
They will have to answer in due time because when you take a child from someone to create your own children, you should always give them the same respect even if you have children of your own. We have seen all these things happen in our relatives. First a child was adopted and it was said that this is our child and we will have it for the rest of our lives, raise it, marry it, and so on.
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Parents will do all the things for their children, then after some time we see that the child has been left alone and no one is loving him like that, so all these things. There are many wrongs. Even if the child is yours, this child should be given more love than that because he came to you when you were very worried about the child and you were mad at that time with so much worry.
Because of not having children and then having that child in your life, those four or five years of your life are going very well and you are loving a lot of children and when you have children, all the things is eliminated. Why do these parents act in such a way that when their own child is gone, they stop honoring the child they have adopted? When asked such a question, he says that when there is one child, all the focus is on him,
And when there are more children, then the time has to be divided among the children, so I do not agree with this at all. When you didn't have children, you were worried, then this child brought joy to your life and the whole world knows this, and then suddenly after 20 years, this child knows all these things. He suffers from mental depression.
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And then there are many questions running in the child's mind that I was given respect earlier but now it is not being given and it is known that he is not his own child then many wrong things in the child's mind. This happens which then spoils the child's future and he neither studies nor does anything else in a way that will make his career better.
Some children even go into depression so much that they finish their studies and try to go back to their previous life by severing contact with their parents. If they are doing justice, then you should live with them. It is a fact that when parents are not yours, if they are giving you the kind of love they give to their children, then you should also love them. You should live your whole life with laughter.
Now we will discuss another thing but here we have seen in many cases that the first child whom they adopt they love it very much even if they have their own children like this. The case is not with us and we are seeing with our own eyes. When the child knows, he should not change his attitude towards his parents and respect them exactly as he used to respect them before.
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Should so that they can spend their whole lives with each other and parents should also respect them with their children if they have children of their own and in the same way that property and all other things are respected here. Dividing should be done in the same way, because if that child is given less of something and more is given to the next child,
Then that child can never live a good life again. I will spend the rest of my life thinking that my parents did something wrong to me. Children are still very innocent, whether they are their own or adopted from somewhere, parents should always treat them the same in all their children so that even the children do not realize that they are being abused.
If it happens in this way, the parents do wrong with their children and with the child they have taken and then in the future there are many fights and many problems and sometimes these problems are 17-18 years old. It starts in age and sometimes things like this when we are older and it is time to share the property,
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Then it is told that it happened in this way, then that child is very worried and mentally tormented. It is a big decision if you are adopting a child, so keep this thing in mind that they have to take responsibility for the whole life of this child, even if later. Why should they not have their own children.
If parents and children understand these things, then there will be no problems in the future and the love of parents and children will always continue in the same way as in childhood if the parents abuse the child. So the child will not like to stay with them again there and will try to go there to his original parents so it is better if anything is taken then it should always be protected so that the former if the parents see this, they should never feel sad and troubled,
And they should not think that these people are not doing good to our children.
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