CHEATING IS A CHOICE NOT A MISTAKE

in #hive-153850last year

People cheat out of selfishness, they always reap where they did not show, we have watched a lot of it in movies even some are around us, they believe they are in power and can impose it on the powerless, and they always believe nothing like karma, not knowing that karma is watching them and it will give it back to them when the time comes.

Not only in relationships we encountered cheating, but cheating also occurs in so many forms, and most of it is always used to victimize the poor always.

pexels-rdne-stock-project-6669884.jpg
Source
A certain time, my father bought land in his village from a man and was planning to use the land for farming, not subsistence farming, he was planning commercial farming, he acquire the land and left for the city, he told us about it and we were all happy about it.

The following month he began to feel sick, he can not do anything again even can not go to work, he was hospitalized for months but he eventually died after all that.

The painful death of our father never allows anyone to think of the land, because it was a painful death, we spent all we had and he could not survive it.

Some years back my mother was just arranging her wardrobe and saw the land's document, she called our attention to it and one of my senior brothers decided to visit the village and check the land so that we can start something on the land in other to fulfill our father's wish.

He left for the village the following month and check the land, when he got there, the land has already been sold out to another buyer, so my brother went straight to the man that sold the land to my father and the man denied that my father didn't purchase any land from him, my brother called my mother and explained everything to her, my mother said we should leave the man and forget about the land but my brother did not agree with her.

My mother is a soft-minded person she doesn't like anything like trouble, my brother insisted on getting to the root of the matter and headed straight to the king's palace and explained everything to him, the king called the man and asked the man about, the man said it is true that he sold the land to my father but since my father is no more he has sold it to another person, my brother was shocked and stood up to slap the man but people hold him down.

My brother threatened to take the man to the court and the man replies to him that he should go and bring his lawyer and that my brother can not do anything to him, he is influential in society and also a politician, the man also threatened to kill my brother if he did not let the sleeping dog lies, he said he will give my brother some plots of land from another place when my father bought hectares of land from him, my brother did not agree to it.

The next day my mother called my brother to return to the city, we all feel cheated but the man is powerful even than the law, my mother leave everything to God (as usual) that is the way the powerless people in Nigeria do.

The next month we heard that the man is terribly sick and demands to see my brother, my mother didn't allow my brother to go and see him because we do not know his intentions. Not too long his first son died in an accident, he sent for my brother again but no response from us.

After much persuasion, my brother visited the man and the man said he saw our father, that my father told him that he should return what rightly belongs to him, at first when my brother said it I didn't believe him because I know if someone is dead the person is dead forever, he said he is ready to return the land to us without any problem.

I can not say my father intervened because he is dead, I just know that the man returned the land to us and I am sure we are not the first person he will try that with, people speak badly of the man when it comes to issues of buying land from him, he does sell a land to multiple people.

This is my entry for this week's episode of #hl-w73e2. Thank you all for stopping by.

CHEATING

Sort:  

Cheating is Intended not a mistake,
It's a deliberate action, nobody force people to cheat, it's just their willingness to cheat

Congratulations!
Your post has been manually curated and reblogged.

You can follow our curation trail on Hive.Vote

If you want to support us and the authors we vote for you can upvote this comment or delegate some Hive Power to our account. Thanks!

Propose a worthy post by mentioning us in the post or in a comment.

We reblog curated posts, follow us if you wish to see them in your feed.

I love the topic you used and it portrays the simple truth which many people tend to ignore: cheating is a choice. When people are caught cheating, they always come up with the excuse that it was a mistake, meanwhile they weren't forced into making the decision to cheat, they chose to do so of their own free will

Exactly I love the topic too

This is not right at all how heartless can some people be? Well I support what you mom did because for him to have such mind to sell the land to someone else it means he can do and undo
#dreemerforlife

Some people are heartless indeed he does not care about the family of the demised. I was happy because he learned his lesson in a hard way

1000140008.gif

Anything involving buying and selling of land often has something of this nature that plays out in it. Very often, even after paying for a land, the buyer will still be displaying that same land to other potential buyers. It's so weird.

I like how your Mum chose to approach the case in a coolheaded way. If your brother made a scene because of the land, the man's death afterwards could have been tied to the incident and that will raise another issue.

It's good to be good. Now, y'all have what truly belongs to your family.

Thanks for sharing this with us.

My dear, we all thought our mother was too cold not until the man lost his first child, we then know that it pays to be calm most times, even word of our mouth needs to relate well in some situation

Wow...!!just like in the movie I wouldn't have believe this if is not from the source I couldn't help but to feel goosebumps all over my body, people can really be mean... What a world of wickedness you sold the land you took the land back and also took the money people can be wicked to the extreme. I'm happy you have your land back...nice one dear

I only saw it in movies not until it happens to my family, the man is extremely wicked and we are not the first person he will do that to.

Thank you for your support

He has learned his lesson the hard way...you re welcome dear

All what you said here are fact, you can't tell me you chart because of it is a mistake , it is definitely a choice you make .I love your write up. #dreemerforlife

Thank you, Mr. Wallay

Cheating is a word that can be used for all sorts of situation. What your family went through in the hand of a corrupt politician is something that we see happen in different forms daily. I wonder how you can resell what you already sold. It is only in Nigeria that some are exempted from the law.

#Dreemerforlife

My dear Nigeria is something else just because the person dies you sold the land to another not considering his family members, I am happy because karma dealt with him

In your case, you received the land but in most cases, people lose their land. You can say it was one kind of miracle that happened to you. You got the justice somehow but I wish everyone get justice.
And yes I agree with you that cheating is not a choice, it's a mistake.

Cheating is never a mistake, it is what you have already planned to do,

I do believe Universe is governed by a supreme being, whoever wronged you and your family will surely reap what they sow. It's not karma for me but the same concept.

And just wanna share, cheating is my bottom line in whatever relationship, friendship, or business partnership I may have.

May we continue to stand against greedy people. Great day!

💛Made my way here through #dreemport. #Dreemerforlife

Thank you for your support dear

Oh my goodness, imagine the heart of men..full of evil but I am happy that karma came for that man
Your mum applied wisdom, even though it may not be easy to take the leave the land decision but it paid off at last

Thanks for sharing

Karma visited the man in a hard way and I was happy because we got the land back