Am I a boring girl??

in #hive-1538502 years ago

Hey hivers!!
Today again I am here to participate in this contest.
We cannot tell everyone to be like us because everyone has a different nature. Their choices are different from ours.
Here are some of the things I think are going around.

Going out(Dating):

The way things are today, we girls have to be very careful to save our honor. We Asian girls need our self-respect the most. We cannot take any step that can make us fall in the eyes of others.

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This is the era where dating has become very common. People are building relationships. They are dating and there are many people who loose their virginity after dating. I was watching an interview where many girls lost their virginity on their first date at the age of thirteen to sixteen. And then they used to end the relationship. I think a girl should never compromise on her dignity. Everyone has their own point of view on this matter. Because some people date for pleasure. It is not necessary that every dating couple has lost their virginity.

A girl's innocence is the beauty of her face and that innocence should never be gone.

But there is no dating chapter in my category. I never want to take this step. In university, many couples go to restaurants, meet, talk and make future plans.

But!!
My view on this is that if I ever date someone in my life, I can guarantee that he will be my future husband. I don't want to waste my feelings for any other person. Otherwise I have not taken any such step yet. Nor will I ever take such a step in future.

Watching films/movies:

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My friends wonder why I don't watch movies. Whenever my friends offered me to watch movies, I always refused them. Due to which I was considered the most boring girl among my friends. Any Bollywood or Hollywood movie is released, my friends have to bunk the class and sit in the green area of ​​the university and watch it. They knew that I would refuse them as usual but I used to bunk class with them and sit outside and read novels instead of watching movies.

I will remember that In the last seven years, I must have just seen three to four movies. Because I can't sit still for three hours. If I look around, from my friends to my cousins, everyone is a movie buff.

Maybe sometime in the future I will develop a craze for watching movies. Hehe

Let's call it a day

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You are very disciplined dear, and I must confess that I love it. Seriously dating has caused a lot of young people harm. I personally do not see the gains in dating because I had scars from that so called dating that can't be wiped out. Environment matters a lot though, where we live influences our lives, there are things that we don't want to do only a normal day but because the environment is trading it, it becomes like a legal thing, that is the point where only discipline and the of God can keep us.

I agree with you that these things tend to spread more because of the environment. All we have to do is save ourselves from such colors of the world and reach our destination.

Thank you dear for stopping by 💕

You are most welcome dear♥️

@faiza34 Nope, you're not boring. You're just You and that’s all that matters. As long as you're happy and comfortable, then all is well.

Dating isn't a compulsory thing and as you’ve said in your article some people lose their virginity on their first date, and some get played too.

It seems we are completely different when it comes to “movies”. I reallyyyyyyy love movies.

Thanks for sharing.

Nope, you're not boring. You're just You and that’s all that matters.

Wow this made my heart happy.

Maybe sometime in the future I will also be fond of movies.
Thank you for your positive feedback 💕

Do you mean you have seen either three to four movies in the last seven years???
I need to call the police!!! This is impossible! How do you do it?

I don't think I can even go a day without watching movie, that's how much I enjoy movies. But then, you also read books, so I can say its a good substitute because I am also a lover of books.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

Yes!! I have absolutely no interest in movies. But I read your post where you said you like movies But, it's hard for you to believe that.

Yeah I'm fond of reading novels.
Thank you for stopping by.

Omg, you're almost like me! 😱😅
Even though all my friends are dating, but i haven't. I don't even have a crush yet. I don't really know about love or relationships.

And for the movies, it seems like we're kinda similar too. I don't like anything longer than an hour. After all, i prefer animes and cartoons to drama films or realistic movies or... something like that. Because animes and cartoons are usually 20-30 minutes long in each episode.

And we're both Asian girls! ️😄

I am very happy to hear that your thinking also matches to mine.
I still watch cartoons because they look better than movies.haha

And I pray that you find someone who understands your feelings.

Thank you for your positive feedback 💕 nice to meet you dear.