Anger causes lines to form on our forehead and change the angles of our face and then our mind goes out of control and fire words come out of our mouths that are sometimes unforgivable and unforgettable.
Anger can never be good for a person.
In many cases, I have seen that even if a person is truthful and explains himself in anger, people consider him a liar. And most of the people even being liars but talk in a polite manner that people believe them to be true. The only difference between these two versions is the accents. I think people who are more emotional tend to be more angry. When any of their emotions or any of their words are not understood, those people find it more important to get angry with a calm temper. Perhaps one reason for this is that they think people understand angry language more quickly.
One thing I always know is that "promises made in anger and decisions made in anger only lead to regret later."
There is no doubt that anger is a natural emotion but very several people know how to handle anger.
We lose a lot by getting angry.
Fall in the eyes of others:
When we humiliate a person in front of everyone in anger, we lose our honour and respect in their eyes. And also we lose our innocence. There are always two options to explain things, one is to explain your point in a calm mood and the other is to explain it with anger. Therefore, it is better to think about the respect of others so that tomorrow we do not have to be embarrassed in front of others.
Lost our mind:
By getting angry, we create problems not only for others but also for ourselves. When we get too angry, our blood pressure rises, headaches start, and we just want to kill the next person alive. We don't give space to the other person to understand and by our behaviour we want him to understand what we are saying but it doesn't happen at all.
We disobey people:
If people try to tell us our mistake or try to explain it to us, then we start to misunderstand them too. And at a time we think that all these people have left us alone. We don't listen to them and even also get away from such people in anger.
Make decisions wrong:
Some people get so mad with anger that they divorce their wife and saying that "I divorced in anger, please forgive me".
Have you ever heard that divorce is given in love?
Definitely no, A person takes such steps only in anger. We must not allow anger to dominate us so much that we lose many relationships over it.
Anger is not the solution۔ Anger is like a fire that sometimes consumes everything. If we are really hurt because of someone, then it's not important that we can say the same thing to him in anger, we can also say it in a nice way. And I believe that man understands the language of love better.
So,
Learn to control your anger before it controls you.