Anger is a sword that can hurt many people including yourself

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Hello everyone, I'm very happy that today I can share my thoughts with all of my friends, hopefully it can be useful for many people.


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In general, when people are facing problems, people always have to face mounting anger, because a person's anger will easily appear if faced with serious problems, not a few people who cannot control their anger or emotions when they are facing problems, it is even very unfortunate if people people immediately put forward their anger in the face of a problem.

Then how to solve the problem, does it have to be with anger?

So far there has not been a single problem that can be solved properly if it is resolved emotionally, so it is very wrong if things like that continue to be done by people in solving a problem, because so far it has been proven that if a problem is solved incorrectly well then it will directly cause new problems, that is a fact, in fact other problems will be more complicated and even more difficult to solve.

maybe for some people will choose violence or prioritize their ego in responding to a problem, people like that think relying on muscles and strength will bring good changes, even though a good way of thinking is not like that, people are always wrong in making decisions so that new conflicts often arise, making the complexity even worse.

A problem will be easily solved if it is resolved by deliberation, talking maturely, and the most important thing is sharing and asking for opinions from people we can trust, I think that is the best way and I am sure that no matter how big the problem can be solved properly and will be avoided of the new problem.

I think that's the best solution for dealing with a problem, hopefully we can always control our emotions and become wise people in handling everything.


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Dialogue is always the best in resolving issues.
To me, muscle and tongue are never an option in settling problems especially when angry because one will tend to destroy more instead of bringing solution.
Best wishes

that's what I mean, thanks for coming.

I don't agree with the fact problems solved with emotions involved aren't solved properly because there are situations when emotions can't leave out in making judgments.

The society we live in believe in applying force into everything and we can see the results, violence everywhere.

I accept your opinion, if it must, why not!

I agree with you. Talking to people on things we are angry about will help us to solve the problem. But one have to be careful on the people they approach concerning their problem because some will end up adding more fuel to the fire while the good ones will help to resolve the issue amicably.

yup, that's exactly right!

Settling a problem amicably by talking it out with someone and looking for solutions is also a better way you can settle things especially when you're angry.

very true, thanks for agreeing!

Many people make mistakes in decision making and due to this conflicts arise. Anyway very well written and thank you so much for sharing it with us

Control our emotions is a great medicine to our souls and people around us, God will help us, thanks for sharing.

Thank you for agreeing and I am very happy for your visit.

Good point. We can solve our problems with dialogue rather than anger. Anger can be disastrous when one cannot control it. It takes maturity to be able to control one's anger when it comes

mature mind is very important, thank you so much

Somehow our society has associated aggression with strength. You can notice this is a movie where heroic deeds only happen when one is in anger. You have precisely concluded anger is an issue itself. How can it solve the problems then? Well to make things managed one has to remain calm and satisfied instead of wasting energy showing aggression. Nice work 👍

yes it is very true, thank you for coming with the words of wisdom.😊

Hehe, you have done very well dude 👍