A LITTLE DIFFERENT ISN'T BAD

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Good day, wonderful members of this prestigious community. I welcome you all to my blog and also another interesting future post on the Hiver Learners community.

We are all humans, and as different as our faces are, and so is how different our lifestyles tend to be. We all approach life from a different angle, so the way we see life and interpret the circumstances that surround it diffesrs hence we are made differently.

So basically, I will be more personal on this one. I did like to start with my Family Background of mine. Family background very much has a strong influence on a child and hence the way things are been done in our various families, we tend to adapt to some of those things and hence make a life out of them.

The family in which I come from is basically On You own way of living but not as if there don't care or come through for you in time of need but everybody is just so bent on making a life for themselves to the point that it just gets too much. There is that disconnection among us, outsiders may see that we have issues or something but deep down we know ourselves and always comes out when needs arise. I will say there is that on the low sense of lifestyle in there and also the quest and the unending taste to win big, just getting yourself life is what really matters so you wouldn't be a burden to anybody. People generally find this very weird for we don't do this family thing the way they do theirs, the relation, the visiting, the family vacation and all that, but it is all good.

Coming to the environment I find myself. I am a kind of person that keeps to my space and hence chases my work to the core, as far as it pays me, I am in there, I pay less attention to the trends and happenings of the surroundings and hence they find this very weird and uninteresting of a life I have on. For them I should always be outside with them discussing and laughing and doing all sorts of things, but where have all those things got to take me. They call it pride, that I am just being boastful, I just laugh within me, cause I know deep down we see life from a different angle and where I come from it is winning and only winning that matters, not all this.

Again on this, I know how many times I have been invited to birthday parties and all that, people around me just find various means to get me associating, but I really find this hard on my side, I just don't get those vibes of being out at every time in my life, I just need this me time for I only get it once. Sincerely speaking, it is only me that knows the number of problems I have been saved from for being indoors and always being very busy and so occupied with what benefits me.

I really can't change people's opinion about the way I do my things, some say I am very much an unpredictable person, and thats really bad, and thats why I don't have any serious female friends and all that, lol. I just like my peace, for me so it's either this way for me or the other, for there is always a plan B for me.

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That's the downside of being an introvert; we hardly socialize with people and always stay indoor but the funny thing is that it's actually a blessing because the time we would have used to socialize with people can be channeled into something productive that will help shape our future

an unpredictable person, and thats really bad

Point of correction: it's actually a good thing. Being predictable will make it easier for people to take advantage of you. When they know how you will respond to a situation, they can manipulate things to their advantage

Wow! I like your kind of person, it is not everything that seems legal that should be done. There are many things we need to decline inorder to stay Concentrated in life

Lol sometimes staying on your own saves you a lot of stress and trouble but then you still need to socialize because you definitely need humans to survive

If you are happy in your own company, the opinions of others don't matter. People talk a lot but the only successful person is the one who listens to everyone but does what his heart tells him to do.

Thank you for sharing such a master piece 💕

No matter what we do, people will still find us weird in some manners of life but they do not understand it is how we have been and not like being proud or something.

Indeed... The trends can pass right over my head and I would have no idea. The only trend I keep up with have to do with movies and music. Any other thing, I might just be an armature.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

Being different most times means you see what others can't and I think that is what makes us unique in our own ways.

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