AM I WORTH EMULATING?

in #hive-1538502 years ago

In life we all are worth something, there is no useless person as long as you are alive, although I'm kind of feeling that way lately but I know is just a scheme to make me really useless. When I look at the life of some persons around me, I feel more and more useless because I see how well they are doing and I'm just here doing nothing (yes, that's what my mind tells me). Today is one of those days when I look at myself and wonder if there is anything that anyone would want to emulate in me and surprisingly there are so some things and knowing that helped me overcome the thought of not being useful.

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In one of my previous article, I wrote about things I look out for when choosing a role model and now I'm going to write about the things that I know one would like to emulate in me. This is one of the hardest things to do but thank God for all the amazing people I have around me, they've made my work very easy because they always tell me things they see and like in me, so I will be telling you some of them.

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HARDWORKING

This is one of the things people say they like about me, they will always be like, ah!! Hope is okay, don't you even get tired? Just do a little and rest please, lolz. Yes, those are most of the words they say to me once I start working and you know one funny thing about me, once you tell me to stop I always feel like continuing, so please don't tell me to stop, lolz 😂😂. I don't work all the time but when I do, I do it with all that I am 😊.

JOVIAL

I know someone is smiling reading this, well if you aren't, I am, hehehe. I'm a very free person, I like, no, I enjoy meeting new people and also making friends but that's not really the interesting part, the interesting part is, I also like making people around me want to be jovial, hehe. I hate it when I'm the only one that gets to laugh when I hear a joke, so I kinda have the gift (if I should call it that) of making most people if not everyone laugh to a joke. Most people do like that about me but some do hate me because I make them break their principles (useless principles actually 😬).

ENGAGEMENT KNIGHT

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Of course I do have another quality that people want to emulate but this one is specially for Hive. I was not as active as this some few months back but then something made me become better at engagement and that happened when @dreemport did a collaboration with @ecency. Well to cut the story short, the points I got or gets from ecency made me worked very hard for it and it was easier if I made post using the ecency front-end and also when I engage.

I can't count the amount of benefits I've enjoyed from being very active here and when others see this they always tell me they want to be like me and they also did well to encourage me to continue. At some point I got the tag of an ENGAGEMENT KNIGHT given to me by @starstrings01, I got the tag of ENGAGEMENT PRINCESS which was given to me by @ksam and also the tag of ENGAGEMENT QUEEN, lolz and this one was given to me by @obaro. It was an honor to be given those names and I will be very proud to see who takes it away from me, I think I want to give the crown to someone else, I think I'm being selfish wearing it for so long 😁.

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Well, I will stop here because these are the major things I think people want to emulate in me at the moment and I hope to show the way if there is anyone willing to learn, hehe. Like I said at the beginning, no one is useless and I'm not useless, I have so much to offer and I'm going to deliver 🥵.

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Wasn't it me who gave you the title of Engagement Queen 🤔

Hahaha, my bad, you were also part of the persons that gave me that name, so sorry I didn't mention you, I could only remember Obaro because he was always on my neck with that name lolz. But yes, you also called me that too ❤️.

Lol. Actually you are unbeatable with regard to engagement. I am really amazed where you get this much energy from....

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Hahaha, me too I wonder when the energy comes from too but I pray it keeps coming, hehehe.

I wish you the best of luck, sweet heart.

You sisters are amazing.
Haha. During uptrennd days, the engagement by @merit.ahama stunned me, but you have out performed. Lol. You have left the whole Hive behind you in this regard.
May God give you more successes

Yes, I heard that Merit did really well then and I'm very sure that's why everyone was very surprised with my own, haha. Thanks for letting your words of encouragement Amber ❤️, you are loved 🤗.

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Smiles 😍😍

Haha I wish I could have those days back 🥰 I miss being very active on the platform.

How are you doing Amber dear?

I am good, my old fella.

Life doesn’t always remain same. We need to embrace the changes

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Well I might not know of other thing but truly u like engaging other people's post which am one of those you do engage his post..💯💯
I will like to have that engagement spirit too

Well, all you have to do is have fun while you engage with others and trust me, you will do really well too.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your beautiful comment, I hope to see you try.

I am just wanted to say you are a good human with a good heart ❤️
That's it....
This is the best things of life...

Awwn, thank you so much Hasan, you are also an amazing person ❤️🙏. Thank you for your kind words 🥰.

I like jovial people. The caharacteristics I wish I have.

Awwn, that means we are going to make a good friend here on Hive then 🥰.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your comment dear.

Everyone is useful in their own ways.
At a time, I do feel like I have no worth. But gratitude has made me realized that I worth than enough.

Sweetheart, your characters are really nice. I don’t think I am that hardworking tho 😂😂. Kudos. … I only love cooking.

Your words are very encouraging and beautiful, I'm happy to have you stop by and leave such beautiful comment.

Cooking is a great work too you know and that is why I said everyone is useful, I'm not so good at cooking but I try though, hehe.

I think being jovial specifically is not something that is gifted to all persons.

This for sure is worthy of imitating. Especially if you find it difficult to socialize in public places.

Awwn, thank you so much Emmy, I'm so glad you think that being jovial is truly worthy of emulations.

You're welcome Hope.

Thank you Emmy 🙏

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I'm doing fine @gleam-of-light, hope you are doing fine too?

Thank you so much for the invitation and thank you for the support, it's highly appreciated 🙏❤️.

You are indeed a mentor and a leader, you have the quality of a role model and i as a person never regret of knowing you on this platform.. you see the role of engagement you deserve an award on that Weldone and keep the good work going.

You are really an engagement queen I must say even hive buzz gave you a badge for that. We are not allowed to compete but emulate. So i will emulate that.

I wish you greater achievements. Dropped in from the #dreemport

I'm so happy you want to emulate that, I'm very sure you will do really well and by the way you are doing well already, you just have to stay consistent at it 😊.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your comment dear.

Thank you too, the pleasure is all mine

Smiles 🥰

Oh yes...and how did I miss this post? All thanks to dreemport who waybilled me here 😂😂😂
Babe, you are doing absolutely well, okay? 👍...many are following your footsteps including Nkem 😂... please carry us along oo

Show me the way hope 😍

Hahaha that's why I love @dreemport, hehe always taking us to where we ought to be, hehe.

You know I am your girl oo, but of course that will not stop you from learning a little from me but please Ma'am, I'm loyal, just call me whenever you need me 🙏.

Thank you so much for stopping by, I'm honored ❤️

That's my baby 😍🥰👏

Smiles, yes, that's my amiable ambassador 😍❤️.

My dear, you're a role model model me and to many. I love most especially how jovial you are.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
From #dreemport.

Awwn, thank you so much Jane, it is nice to meet you officially on the chain 🥰.

You're welcome but I'm surprised you called me Jane.

Smiles... Oh! Is your name not Jane?

That's my confirmation name, not sure if I've mentioned it here. But that's by the way.

Your confirmation name? What's that?

Ok, every catholic person has a confirmation name, that's apart from your surname, and baptismal name which is the first name.
Confirmation name is the name of a saint you love and wish to be like, and it is one of the catholic sacrament. When you start answering that saint's name, it becomes your confirmation name.

Oh, I see, thank you so much for explaining it to me 🙂

Hardworking? You are that for sure. And for you to make beautiful engagements to a lot of people yet remaining quality shows you are intelligent as well.

I don see person wey I go dey follow her footsteps oh

I don't even know which emotion I'm feeling now, lolz I think it's a mixed feeling. Thank you so much for knowing that I'm hardworking but I can't say for intelligent though 😅.

Ah! I'm so honored sir, well I almost wanted to rebuke you 😬 but I just remembered that we can learn from any one 😂 🏃‍♀️.

smiles... but na me dey learn from you at the moment..

Hmm, I won't say anything sha, no problem sir 😏🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

What can I say partner except you are wonderful, kind and beautiful so yes of course you are worth emulating!
Popped in from Dreemport tonight 🙂

Awwn, thank you so much partner, it's always so nice hearing this words from a partner 🥰🥺.

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E just dey always shock me whenever I see your comment under almost every blog/vlog I come across, I first thought it was because I'm a newbie but then, as my waka began to increase, e con dey look like juju for my eyes. Omo person wet go collect that crown from you go try to, I mean he/she go work.weldone sist.

Hahaha, that's really so funny, maybe it's because you know the same set of people as me here but yes I do try to reach out to as many as I can.

Well, it's very possible because I actually collected it from someone so I believe someone will still take it away from me soon.

I'm honored to have you stop by Bobby 😊.

I can absolutely relate to your positive traits sis and I think it makes you really unique.

I think we already share the same traits of being hardworking and jovial, the one I want to emulate is your engaging spirit especially on hive. You're super awesome with that and I'll work towards becoming like you on that aspect even though it's not easy.

Anyways, never stop being you Hope! ❤️😘

I think I got the jovial parts from watching one of your videos on open mic, you just gave off that vibe. These characters you've mentioned especially the engagement and hardworking part are really something to look up to.

I like hardworking people and I'm trying to work on that too so if you'll take a name from me, I hereby call you Empress engagement

Oh really!! I wonder which video is that, you are now making me feel somehow 🥰.

Now I get to know a little about what you like, hehe. I so much love the name, thank you Nelson 🙏❤️.

when you work on being your best you without desire for acknowledgement, people are drawn to that and may choose to emulate your drive and dedication

That's right sir, thank you for your comment, I'm really grateful 😊.

Aah, Hope... you are the engagement queen, truly! You bring a smile to my face whenever I see your comments on my or others' posts. I am sure you have many qualities that drive your success - and will continue to be invaluable into your future. !LUV !ALIVE !PIZZA

Wow 🥺🥺, these words just went straight to my heart and I'm feeling emotional right now, thank you so much Sam ❤️, I'm so happy you think about me this way 🙏🥰.

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Comrade @obaro weldone oooo
How is the family?

Engagement wey everybody know am as, e reach your turn... you turn am to Igwe and Lolo (King and Queen) 😅😅😅😅

I just say make I Greet you ooo
You're doing well 😅
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@hopestylist I'm glad you did something like this... to prove to yourself continously that you are more than useful... and infact mole rodel or some people...

Sorry, I mean... role model 😁

Some people jealous me
Some people jealous me
Some people jealous me

I will not mind them
I will not mind them😂😂😂😂😂☺️☺️💔

Hahaha, you are not funny sha, it has tay that I hear that song sha, lolz.

Yeh.... Chinsos😂😂😂😂💔

Why are shouting naw?

Shet😂💔

Omo na D4... String comrade dey shout.😂
Because I never hot🥺💔

I nor understand oo, why e dey do me like say I dey read Spanish 🙂.

Damn.. I don park well lydat.
This entering is deep 💔😢😓

I'm sure @ksam sef will not come to my rescue!

Hahaha, this kind of greeting nor be here oo, well done sir. Thank you so much for greeting him for me, lolz, you are a darling 🥰.

Yes Sam, I'm happy I could think a little better if myself and you have been of great help too, thank you 🥰.

So Ksam na darling, me I be noise maker 😓😂💔

@ksam na baller, me I be stick 👋💔

No naw, that's not the case please 😂. You are a darling too, don't mind Hope please 😬.

😂🤲
It's well.

I'll sha do my own back!
😊

Please naw, I'm sorry 🥺

I will show you ata rodo.."pepper" 🌶️😂🙏🤲

Ah!!! Okay oo 🙂😂😂

It takes a lot of time and effort to be very active here on hive, especially when it comes to engagement. And that is something you are able to handle so well.
Of course, I know it's really not easy but there are numerous benefits one can obtain here on hive through constant quality engagement. From all that, I can say you are very much worth emulating.
Thanks for sharing!❤️

You are absolutely right, it's very hard and uncomfortable to be very active here on Hive but if you put your mind to it and just have fun, you will realize it's not hard after all.

Thank you so much for your kind words friend, I discovered that you are a brother to my sister @dimmablogs, hehe. Nice to meet you specially on my post 🥰.

Yes I sure am😊
It's good to know you both know each other well and it's really nice to meet you too! I'm certain I'd learn a thing or two from you.
Thanks a lot ❤️

Smiles, I know you will and I'm going to also learn from you too 😊.

Hehe, it's nice to see you've already met my brother 😊... I guess we're all a family now 🤩

Hmm I celebrate grace ooo, only you three wonderful tags; Engagement knight, engagement princess, engagement queen... I want to be like you ma 😃😃

Well I attest to the fact that you're very hard-working I so much admire that attribute in you, keep it up dear 🥰
And also very social, your level of interaction with people is top notch 👍 a very active hivian. Greater heights engagement queen, engagement knight, engagement princess.

Smiles, you are just so funny and kind with your words. Thank you so much for your compliment, I'm grateful.

You can be like me, you just have to be ready for it, hehehe.

Thank you so much for stopping by dear.

Hmm... Am ready for greatness ma 😃😃

And you will be great sir 🥰.

Amen oo and you too ma. 🥰

Amen 💯😊

I smiled even before I got there, your name alone put a smile on my face, and truly you are hardworking, it can be seen here..

Thank you so much dear, I'm happy you smiled, hehe.

Well your name happens to bring that in 😊😊

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I know someone is smiling reading this, well if you aren't, I am, hehehe.

I smiled truly 😊😊😊 you are really jovial even in your post and I like that about you.

Hehehe... Engagement knight, queen, princess.... All these for you? Ahn,,, I am blushing.

Seriously, you are doing great and working hard especially getting to gather those Ecency point with your effort. That's something one needs to learn from you.

You are indeed amazing and if you don't know, you are one of those that keeps gingering me to be more active here because seeing people like you engaging so well on Hive, I feel I don't love myself 🤥🤔
These past few days, I have been more active here and I love the outcome. Keep it going, darling 😘

Smiles, I'm so glad you really smiled 😊... As in ehn, all those many names for me, me sef I'm blushing 🥰.

Yes I've notice you've been active and I hope it stays that way because it's always nice having you around.

I'm so grateful for your presence here, I hope you have a good night rest dear 🥰❤️.